Its always difficult to decided which topic to post under so i'll take a shot at it here.
Recently my boyfriend told me that during sex he forces himself to think of mundane things in order to keep going for longer and briefly pop back in and out of what we're up to, so i guess its kinda moderated pleasure in a way. He said to me that if he didnt then he would cum in the first few minutes, but by doing this he can last for about half an hour.
Is this something other guys do?
Can you suggest any other/ better ways to keep going for longer? Its a bit odd to know that he's probably wondering what to cook for dinner while we're being intimate?
I think about other things sometimes in a real heated session wehre I wanna feel like I am a stud just for her. Its something we do for the ladies
> Can you suggest any other/ better ways to keep going for longer? Its a bit odd to know that he's probably wondering what to cook for dinner while we're being intimate?
Your question has been asked and answered so many times that there is now a Sticky post on the topic. Please read: Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation in the SEXUAL HEALTH: MEN forum.
The tactic you describe that he relies upon is a good an valid one. It has been recommended for years; although having said that, the two methods in Sticky post work much better.
maybe so but sex should be enjoyed so if it feels good then let it go, ! but try more fore play the more you stoke the fire the hotter it ( she'l ) get