[QUOTE=darrensusername]i read the "lasting longer" page but it doesnt help too much.. if i use the squeeze technique .. like ill b squeezin every few mins.. ahh wut do i do[/QUOTE]
These things don't change overnight. Keep trying the advice on the page, and it'll probably help.

One thing that I found that worked for me when I first started and was having the same problem, is having the girl on top. This may be a little ackward for her if she is new to sex as well, but she will get used to it. The idea, is that she will do more grinding then bobbing. Let her grind back and forth on it, which she will more than likely enjoy, as it stimulates the clitoris in a way that regular missionary and most other positions cannot. The penis will not get as much stimulation from this, as the vaginal walls will not cause as much friction against you, allowing you to last longer. So, the end result will be (eventually) that she has a nice orgasm before you have to (and once again...eventually at the same time that you do).

You just need to let your lady know that this is an issue to you, and you want to please her. Tell her when she is on top, that at times she may need to slow down if you start feeling close too early. You can tap her on the hips to let her know she needs to slow down. She can then come all the way down on you, and once you become comfortable again, she can start to grind her clitoris against you, which should start things up for her again, and then begin back into the rhythm. After a few sessions of doing this, the time that she has to completely stop should lessen and lessen, until it is gone, and she can immediatly begin grinding herself against you, allowing you to regain control. This will help her reach an orgasm, since she won't have to come to a complete halt.

Man on top (and all it's variations) is a great position, but it can be hard for an inexperienced person to handle it. I think this is because you are in complete control, and when the urge to orgasm starts coming on, your body takes control and finishes the job. It's instinct.

Well, try this out, and if you need to in the beginning, wear two condoms. It offers extra protection and cuts down on the stimulation you will feel, letting you go longer.

Also, you need to try to tame your mind. Your mind is really what makes everything happen, so if you focus your thoughts, it helps a lot. You don't have to totally seperate yourself from what is going on, and rob yourself of the experience, but you can try to focus on how pretty she looks, and how much you care about her, instead of allowing yourself to think only dirty thoughts. Once again, this technique takes time and patience.

After a couple of months of doing this method, I had no more problem at all, and in fact, I would have to try very hard to orgasm before I was ready now. Have fun, and let me know how it goes!

[QUOTE=Verrek]Well, try this out, and if you need to in the beginning, wear two condoms. It offers extra protection and cuts down on the stimulation you will feel, letting you go longer.[/QUOTE]
Wrong!
Wearing two condoms actually increases the chance of breaking both because of the friction, ergo making you more likey to get her pregnant. Look around at your local drug store for "extra-thick" condoms.

or you could simply try having a hand/head job then pleasing her.. then once she is pleased u might be ready to go again and thus make love the second time..

in other words have an orgasm then do the real thing after that orgasm when your body allows you. you will last longer though do not quote me on that.