[QUOTE=LoveHerCumming;264560][COLOR="blue">I have a kind of problem.
My main focus during intercourse is her pleasure. Thing is, I also seem to have a naturaly very long stamina (I've had sex a few times, and i've never cum before an hour and a half or so)[/COLOR]

You are to be complimented and commended for your care and concern toward your partner's pleasure.

How is your stamina when masturbating? Do you climax quickly or within a reasonable time frame? If so, then there is nothing wrong with either of you--just methodology.

It is not unusual nowadays for fellas to have the misguided misconception that the best way to an orgasm is from lots and Lots and LOTS and LOTS of stroking. WRONG! This is the why of all the fooling around and making out we do beforehand. You should be at or very near the brink of an orgasm, although not so close that you lose control while moving around and getting into position.

Women ofter report back that if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes they become sore, bored, and tired. Has she ever reported this happening to her? Even if she has not, you can fully expect that one or more are indeed bothering her if you are stroking and stroking for much longer. Well intended though you are, you are not pleasuring her all you can.

If you can climax within a few minutes when you masturbate, then you should climax within several minutes if you are about to climax when entering your partner. If not, you are beginning intercourse much too soon.

[COLOR="blue">Is this a bad or weird thing? Cos I dont want to hurt my girlfriend, but I kinda want to cum aswell...[/COLOR]

Not weird, not bad, simply poor technique. The fix: when you know better, you do better. Now you know better! :)

In addition to being near the peak of your climax when about to enter her, you might also want to add a dab of lubrication to the glans only of your penis before rolling on your condom. Doing so will give it a bit of wiggle room and transfer more friction. Also apply lube to the outside of the condom if necessary.

I have two questions; first, how much time do the two of you devote to fooling around and making out before ever getting to the foreplay stage and later, intercourse? Second, what do you do during that hour of waiting to climax. Are you helping her to climax first and shortly after entering? What about after you have finished? What about during all the rest of the time?
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the more often you have sex the better you become at making yourself cum. I have a probelm with my first time with any girl I meet. I take about an hour and a half to cum. Using a condom I tend to go limp, and going bareback I wind up still taking a minimum of 1 to 1.5 hours.

Mostly me getting used to the feeling. The more times I have sex the faster I cum. My current fwb's I have never used a condom. She is on BCP and we use spermicide as well. I last forever the first time we had sex. The second time, I lasted a little less, but I still would tire and she would have to take over. It wasn't until our 5th or 6th time that I was starting to cum within 20 minutes. We just kept going until I finally managed to cum within a few minutes.

It just takes practice. I mean the first time you jerked it you weren't adept at getting yourself off right?t it took some getting used to