Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time. She didn't enjoy it, neither did I. She says she has never enjoyed having sex, because she doesn't feel anything. Could this be because she is overweight? And is there anything I could try with her. She doesn't like being on top and I have no idea what I am doing since that was my first time. Help. . . .
Wed, 02/28/2007 - 08:46
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Larger women and sex.
Weight has nothing to little to do with sexual pleasure:rolleyes: , because its your first time also will contribute very little to the situation as in many posts some woman experience more pleasure through clitoral stimulation than penetration:p
Being your first time, I am assuming relative youth. Yes, body shape can affect sexual response. It does not necessarily turn it off but it does require some exploration - by each of you.
The psychological side is beyond what can be on a forum but the excess layers of fat can reduce stimulation of appropriate parts. If she is interested, she can discover what needs to be done and you can certainly help.
Try here first
Intercourse and Orgasms
Why can't I orgasm
You'll learn as you read around the site, that most women can't orgasm from penetration alone.. they need clitoral stimulation.
There is even a small percentage of women who still have yet to even have an orgasm, or don't feel they are capable. If she can give herself one, then that's one step closer.
I mean I can see where extra weight can get in the way, but it depends on how much you are talking about. Big difference from being 30lbs overweight and 100lbs!
The words larger women & sex should not be seen together.
[QUOTE=Sirene;169029]The words larger women & sex should not be seen together.[/QUOTE]
I disagree:mad: You should just let her eat TWINKIES while you are cracking her!
I don't like small cars or real big women but somehow I always find myself inem...Kidd Rock
[QUOTE=Old Kid;169063]I don't like small cars or real big women but somehow I always find myself inem...Kidd Rock[/QUOTE]
lol ah Kid Rock. :D
She has no problem having orgasms when I use my fingers there is usually a response the second my fingers are in. and the second and third time we tried were about the same I didn't enjoy it nor did she. we both are 20 years old I am 6' 1" 250lbs about 6" in length she is 5' 6' and about 240 lbs
[QUOTE=Sirene;169029]The words larger women & sex should not be seen together.[/QUOTE]
I beg to differ. Voluptuous women are a turn-on.
[QUOTE=hostessSeller;169058]I disagree:mad: You should just let her eat TWINKIES while you are cracking her![/QUOTE]
Well i fink that u both are wrong u are nasty and rude about bigger women we have feelins aswell n we all no how to enjoy ourselves u just have to experiment till u find summit that works aswell as slim women, n some men actually like women witha bit of meat on there bones n i think that u are quite wrong in wot u are sayin, we all no how to enjoy aourselves n that the joy of sex/makin love wid a partner that you get to try things out on each other and find out about each other and wot u like.
I like women with meat. Im not into skinny bitches. What i dont like is fat hanging all over the place & getting in the way.
Plus, fatties tend to have nasty saggy titties.
PS. Heard of full stops before? They look like this: .
yeah i just dont use them wen someone gets me mad i just write lol
for gosh sakes 5'4" and 240lbs is not voluptuous, it's dangerously fat, everybody has different likes with whom they date,but there is a point a where obese takes over from voluptuous. its not healthy and being politically correct about is just enabling a serious problem. it's time they would seek medical intervention:confused:
It's time they stop eating pies & twinkies & get off their fat ass. No one wants to see that crap hanging everywhere. Its gross.
When I sit in a restaurant, if a fat person walks in it puts me off my food.
I wouldnt shag a fatty with my worst enemies cock.
Yeah really obese is dangerous but they is a difference between a little overweight n mega obese n from wot u sayin neone who is ova weight is disgustin which is not true everyone likes dif ppl
Man ignore every one here. Try diffrent things and see what works with your girl. Just because you are big doesn't mean that you shouldn't and can't enjoy sex. I'm 5' 1 and 170 lbs. and I have no problem having sex or getting into all types of positions, my legs can go behind my head! Go and get you some porn geared towards big people and have you some fun, and sirene I could probaly show you some fun stuff too, But seeing that you don't like big people and find them disgusting, I'm probaly not your "flavor" either.
I've been with a wide range of body types and I do prefer women with more "meat on their bones". As far as what's considered overweight...don't buy into the "ideal weight" crap. According to those charts I should be in a hospital, 6'1 350 pounds....yet I only look 220. Muscle mass plays a huge roll in total weight as muscle tissue is literally 2x they same weight as the same volume of fat. I just think it's nice to have a girl you know you won't break as easy if things get a little rough. Hell some of them are quite strong themselves.
Same here as with thresher. I'm five foot six-seven and I weigh just over two hundred pounds, but most people when they find out are totally shocked because I only look about one-fifty/one-forty.
It's because I run and throw shot and disc on my schools track team, bowl on a winter league, and I bike over eighty miles most saturdays in the spring/summer/fall, I'm most all muscle.
It's pretty funny though, that you say that Sirene, you were prolly 'fat' once yourself, or you are now.
Can someone say shallow pig?
Even most scrawny-size-triple-zero girls, your assumed IDEAL girls, would find you a complete turn off. Most mentally-stable girls don't like pigs.
i agree with dylan entirely...
My girlfriend for over 10 months now is overweight... shes about 5'4-5'' and around 180 lbs... if memory serves. But she has extremely strong thighs, theyre all muscle!! shes very nearly snapped me in half on occasions where Im tickling her! Of course, Im a human twig... Im about 5'7'' and around 120 lbs... i have high metabolism... i eat like a black hole... but anyways...
I like girls with a bit of pudge more... all those skinny bitches look alike to me... they have no boobs usually... I myself am an admitted boob-guy... My girl's boobs are a nice C cup... not to big, not too small :D
we have had sex more times than i have fingers and toes! We both hve reached orgasm every time except once... when we were interrupted... but thats not the point.. we can still have very enjoyable sex and in several positions as well!
Wel first dont listen to the guys that tell you larger women and sex dont go together. I have had a big woman before and it was great. I would look at what you are doing with your fingers that your not when you penetrate her. I would also try oral. You can almost never go wrong there. Good luck.
I am 6' 1" tall and 315 lbs. I only look about 280 though. Yes, I have a beer gut (even though I don't drink...), but I can also squat over 400 lbs. I have not had any problems carrying my girlfriends around when they have gotten tired in the past. For some reason, girls seem to like riding on my back... To bad I am not hung like a horse... PMSL!