For your personality?

i know exactly how u feel, im 5'6 220lbs and my gf is 5'4 average and if she is attracted to me because she loves me so much to see through the weight, ur gf is prolly in the same boat all i can tell u is to not worry about it so much and just enjoy the time u have with her instead of wondering why is she with me im overweight blah blah blah gl man.

bull**** the personality thing. Girls cant be attracted to guys purely because of their personality.

I'm 5'8" and im 190 pounds. And believe it or not, i dont look overweight at all, just 'big', like...wide shoulders. Maybe you're like that too?

[quote=aussiedude;176784]bull**** the personality thing. Girls cant be attracted to guys purely because of their personality.

I'm 5'8" and im 190 pounds. And believe it or not, i dont look overweight at all, just 'big', like...wide shoulders. Maybe you're like that too?[/quote]

Since when did you turn into a woman? And know all women's likes and dislikes? Yes, there are some guys who do not meet our "physically idealistic model" of what we would like for physical attributes. However, there are men when we get to know them they have a great personality which makes them so attractive! Looks are not everything...there are some drop dead gorgeous men, with great bodies but with the mind of an ant, as I am sure you have found the same with some women.

There is a big difference in size between you and the op... 5' 8", 190 v. 240. Some women are not concerned about size, obviously his g/f was attracted to him!

personality, definately

I agree with aussiedude, you need to be in some way physically attracted to a person to be with them. If it's just personality that attracts her to you, you'd probably go no further than being friends. There needs to be at least some physical attraction between two people to make them a couple. You never know, she might just be attracted to people with your build. I know that I am strangely attracted to really lanky guys- I don't know why, but my last boyfriend was really lanky and he wondered why I found him attractive. So she obviously is physically attracted to you, so I wouldn't worry at all! =)

[QUOTE=aussiedude;176784]bull**** the personality thing. Girls cant be attracted to guys purely because of their personality.

I'm 5'8" and im 190 pounds. And believe it or not, i dont look overweight at all, just 'big', like...wide shoulders. Maybe you're like that too?[/QUOTE]

well i didn't find my girl attractive at first but I loved her personality and actually can say now that she is beautiful to my eyes - no she isn't ugly just not what most people would term beautiful but then society is a bit muddled with the blonde typo thing I like my redhead though so sexy

Both of my girlfriends have been sexy, but I did not just fall in love with their body. If I wanted that I would rent the same whore every night after work(btw never rented a whore)

Aussie dude and saz694 have you ever been into a bar. There are the most unattractive men in the world that know how to talk and have a great personality, and hey they get the most beautiful women!! Women are not really attracted to looks like men are!

Thats as dumb as saying men and women have a "type". thats bs its all about attraction, which is more about personality than looks.

Just goto a bar this weekend look for an ugly guy that kinda knows how to dress and watch him pick up women!

A REAL man gives shade in the summer and warmth in the winter!

I don't want no skinny boys! I want a REAL man to warm me up at night.

I'm real thin myself and I think it would hurt me to rattle my bones with another sceleton.

I need my teddy bear. :cool: