Hello all! I am new to the forum!
I realized that pain I was feeling durning sex was because my boyfriend is about 10.5" and it hits my cervix.
:confused:
I would appreciate any advice!
Fri, 07/07/2006 - 04:05
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Large penis's
when my boyfriend and i would be getting intimate, he found it really painful to put on condoms.. his size didnt cause me any pain, but condoms were a pain for him. So we switched to trojan magnums large condoms.... problem solved. but thats my issue.
for you i would suggest switching positions, to you on top, so you can control the depth and thrust of his penis so it doesnt hurt you. or try doggy style, any missonary or front to front type position is going to give a lot more penetration for him. so i would say try switching positions.
Okay, that makes sense. But have you heard that using excessive lubrication
might help?
We normally need nothing but I thought about trying to use some.
Most of the time sex is great but when we inevitablely get too excited he'll just thrust too hard I guess.
I wish I could get used to it but no such luck I guess.
Millie,
The excess lube will make the situation worse because he will be deeper, faster. If you are on the bottom and your body types allow it, after you take him in put your legs together with his outside yours. This limits depth, squeezes him nicely and causes him to "travel" across appropriate spots. If you are on top, move a little farther forward, higher onto his tummy.