I want to give my boyfriend a lap dance that he will never forget..
I love to dance anyway and know how to move my body, but I feel I will only be able to move around him for a limited amount of time before running out of moves and ideas..
Can someone (male or female) give me some sexy tips of what moves should be made which will drive my man insane..!
Doesn't matter what moves you do or if you do the same ones over and over again - the point of a lap dance is to make him SWEAT. You do this by OWNING him. ATTITUDE is EVERYTHING. He isn't allowed to move, touch or say anything (but you can) - he just gets to sit there and take it.
So do whatever you want to do, when and how you want to do it.
You can even use props.
EEK's Lap Dance Tunes
Clubbed to Death from "The Matrix"
Lucky You by the Deftones
Ribbons by Sisters of Mercy
EEK's Lap Dance Outfit
dark sunglasses
fingerless black leather gloves and spiked black leather wristbands
black leather corset
stiletto ankle lace up ankle boots in black leather
(if he's been a good boy, I'll subtlely drag a whip across his body or may be the spikes)
I have found the mingling of fear and desire to be most effective.
When I'm getting a lap dance, I like the stripper to start off with a sexy outfit. Sexy is whatever he thinks is sexy. For me, I like a thong and a revealing bra to start. Tease him by moving the bra aside to reveal your (hard) nipples. Same with the thong, move it aside to show him your (wet) pussy. After you strip naked, more teasing by lightly brushing your nipples across his face, and over his lips. This can progress to more solid contact to the point of holding his head with his mouth over your nipples. I also like lots of grinding, so sit on his lap and grind your pussy all over his crotch. Also, dance with your legs spread in front of his face and play with your pussy. He'll love seeing your fingers digging in your wet pussy. You can insert your finger into his mouth after playing with yourself. I also like seeing the stripper stand with her bum within an inch of my face and spreading her cheeks apart, and then running her finger up and down her crack.
Do all that and then do some more grinding on his lap. He'll probably cum all over the inside of his pants. You might want to make it even more fun by stripping him naked during the dance so that when you grind on him, he'll cum all over your bum. :)