So, I've never had an orgasm from sex or from a guy. It's always been through masturbation. I've been having sex with this new guy and I'll feel like I need to pee and he says that's my orgasm coming. Is that true? The thing is that I never actually reach the point of orgasm but am sooooo close. I start tensing up my muscles and actually end up pushing him out with my vaginal muscles because my muscles tense up so much. How do I get myself to relax and once I relax, will I orgasm?
Thanks for your help!!!
You are correct - you are very close. You are lucky - you have had orgasms through masturbation so know what you are looking for. And, we have all pushed him out a critical moment a time or so.
The urge to pee results from his penis thrusting across your urethra opening. This is irritating and causing you to feel the urge. A slight change in position, possibly raising your knees a bit, will reduce this unwanted friction. The rest is knowing how close you are and letting yourself go. Incidentally, if you pee, big deal. Focus on relaxing, not holding it in.
Thanks Brandye! You made me feel a lot better! =)
Of course the 'urge to pee' is the signal for female ejaculation and orgasm so just RELAX and let it go. YES your bf is correct! Please read the article herein The Four Hotspots. You do have a G-Spot you know. NO you are not actualy going to urinate. This has been researched and no, it isn't pee. Yes, I do this almost all of the time- have ejaculatory orgasms and they are GREAT!
<--tsking @ Brandye
Thanks EvilEvilKitten!! =)