Hey All,
Let me explain my situation a little.
I've been with the same girl for about 6 years now. (on and Off) and I"m in my early 20s. needless to say we have a solid relationship and its like we are married. Our sex life has never really been on point. She has a medical past off holding us back. (complications down thur) and her sex drive has never really been up with mine. Guys are usually more active then ladies anyway. But when it comes to sex. I have to hassle my way in...and I mean hassle. and sex comes every....readdddyy for it. 3 months or sooo...arrrrrhh. Ive been with other girls that were more "active" and the sex was wonderful. I love my girl but something needs to change. I bring up this topic often with her but nothing seems to change. What do I do? should we try couple sex therapy? or is this just the way she is and give up? because I don't want to live a life like a priest. thanks for any advice!
[QUOTE=Quote ] its like we are married[/QUOTE]
Bingo- theres you're problem!
Psychological problem at the bottom of this mate. A Normall girl wants sex more or less as much as a guy, sometimes more, oftena little less. If you've been togther 6 years and its only every 3 months... uno problemo!
The best thing you can do is seek professional help with a therapist. It will help you understand what the "root" cause of the problem and then it will help with digging out of that hole..These people want to help...you might feel a bit embarrassed about having to seek out that help,but it will work if you both accept what they advise...have a great day!