ok, im new on her, this is the first post, i thought id try an get some tips b4 its too late.
me an my girlfriend had sex for the first time last week, she was in quite a bit of pain, to the point of tears. were madly in love so nothin got awkward with that situation!
now last nite was the 3rd time weve done it, an she finally got use to it now, so she dosnt feel pain, but she also dosnt feel any joy or pleasure out of it, now i was goin 4 about 40mins ok, i thought at some point it would feel good for her!! but she said she just got butterflies in her stomach!
she dosnt kno whats shes supposed to enjoy an shes worried that she might not eva enjoy it.
help, this puts a lot of pressure on me, cos if she dosnt enjoy it that makes it vertually impossible for me to enjoy it!!
both 18, she dosnt personally masterbate, ive tried to encourage her, saying its natural an itll help find things she likes, but shes nervous and a bit naive.
but wen we had sex, she said she wasnt gettin any pleasure from it, she still wants to do it more, but i dont want to get in a rutt where im the only one getting pleasure out of it. i want to give her as much pleasure i can an am willing to do anything.
its taken me 6months of constant oral pleasure to get to this point and i can make her orgazm with my tongue or fingers (or both )
it culd be that its the early stages and shes just not use to it, or its not as good as she expected, i dont kno, but i need tips, and advice on if it gets better for women please
horny**Devil welcome to the board.
How old are you and your girlfriend?
How much experience has she had masturbating?
How much reading have you done on pleasing a woman sexually?
You need to know for most women sexual intercourse doesn't cause orgasms. It can feel nice and be lots of fun but she might never cum that way and will more then likely need clitoris stimulation.
I suggest you do a lot of reading in the "how to please her" forum.