well when i make out with my GF i tend to kiss her all over the place, and she doesnt seem to mind too much, though it is hard to get out of her what she enjoys and dislikes i was just wondering what others think about them. for eg: nibbling her ears and nose, or kissing her all over the neck [too vampirish?] and breasts. Also i was wondering if there are any other things people could suggest i could do that she should enjoy also.
Tue, 12/19/2006 - 05:56
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Kissing my GF
i like my boyfriend kissing/nibbling my ear. running his hands through my hair, tracing my lips with his fingers etc.
> it is hard to get out of her what she enjoys and dislikes i was just wondering
In addition to what has been offered above, I offer this:
Use a technique known as "implied consent". A person gives his/her consent without specifically voicing it. Since she seems to enjoy what you are doing, then consider that she has implied that you can continue to do what you are doing until she says or indicates otherwise.
Do not continually ask for approval or if she likes this or that, take it that the answer is "yes"--it is implied.
Lastly, a relationship is a partnership. When it comes to romance and love making, it is not what one person does to the other; rather, what we do with and for each other. Explore, learn, and try things together and then decide what to keep and what not to.
Encourage her to confide in you without demand or pressure and then just sit and wait for however long it takes for her to gather her courage or to have the self confidence to be more open with you.
Assuming you go at the right speed for the moment you're doing well now. You could add running your hands/fingers through her hair, murmuring in her ear and lightly but lingeringly kissing the outer corners of he eyes, and just lightly touching her lips with yours with a closed and dry manner which tends to send shivers down a lady's spine or running those same lips along her jawline.
that is all above the neck
I really like it when my boyfriend lightly kisses my fingertips. It's very simple but it does a lot for me. Try it.
A bad experience with being "body worshipped" Mr. T? Sorry but I cannot see how the act could harm her - or was it more of who was doing it rather than he was doing? That I can understand but this is you after all, yes?
Talk about it with your GF. Communication is sooo important in any relationship. As far as the kissing, my wife doesn't liked to be kissed all over. She's got some bad past experience with the such and doesn't like it at all. So I don't go licking her and kissing everywhere. But, we had to discuss this for me to know and understand. Talk it out.
ya for some reason my girl says shes not that into the whole kissing all over her body thing. i had thought that was for every woman regardless. whats up with that
I don't know and neither will you for sure until you ask her.
Women love closeness, cuddling, hugging, and yes, kissing. On the other hand if the quantity/quality of your kisses is annoying, learn why.
You might want to let your lips trace along behind your fingers as you caress and to lightly kiss here and there as you proceed without going overboard.
hmm ok ill try that. she likes just laying on me and cuddling more than anything especially when i get her to the tingling part before an orgasm but ive never been able to get one out of her