Over the years I have dated. But during that the women would talk about if Men are good kissers, passionate and very good, they are good in bed. And if they are bad kissers, they are bad in bed. I have been with guys that were good kissers that were actually good in bed. What do you think?? I would like some opinions.
Fri, 10/21/2005 - 20:56
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Kissing Him
My g\f bites my lips and sometimes my tongue (REALLY HARD) I hate it, she thinks I'm a pussy so she infllicts minor pain on me. I don't complain much though, it pleases her. But she does suck on my tongue like it were my dick, that really turns me on, and i'm talking actually suck. Its kinda gross though because she ends up eating all the shit accumilated on my tongue from the day. I don't know how she does it, cuz i tried and couldn't do it. When we get hot'n'heavy I perpously do a sloppy kiss (open mouth, lips all over her lips, deep tongue) and touch her all over, she seems to like that. Is it possible to have a completly sloberless kiss? Cuz from time to time a little slober tends to slip out. Another thing is kissing in ackward positions I think it adds spice to kisses espically if they're random. What about kissing noises, Good or bad?
I was the one that initiated our first kiss, and after talking to my bf about it recently (we've been together for 3 years), he said he liked it...so go for it!! it's fun to be able to make the first move, too!! It feels like you're floating afterwards!!
Hmm... if you consider each other "boyfriend" and "girlfriend", then I don't see any reason not to mention a desire to kiss him.
And if you have an oral fetish, then I'm darn near terminal.
Well, since we're on the kissing subject. My boyfriend and i are a long distance relationship. He lives in PA and me here in OH. Bummer eh? Ever since i met him we talk back and forth on the phone and email. Havent felt like this for anyone in a couple of years. Now i just think about kissing him most of the time.
Even in dreams. but havent told him about it yet. you think i should tell him about it or wait until he makes the move??? 
plus does that mean i got an oral fixation for his lips? 
Well, I've only been with one person in my life. I've only kissed one person in my life. I don't have much to compare him too.
However, he is a great kisser. I could make out with him for hours if given the time. As for bed wise, I consider him to be pretty damn good too. There are times I wish he would perhaps be a bit more dominant, but I'm not sure that's his nature to be that way, so I can't hold that against him.
So, in my experience the whole good kisser = good in bed thing holds true.
A gay guy opinion.... it's been MY experience that if the guy is a bad kisser then he's usually not great in bed. The one that springs to mind is a guy that I had... and to some extent still do.. a crush on.
Kissing with him was more like a wrestling match. It was like he was always trying to get over the top of me... hmm... not sure I can explain it better than that. Anyway, it wasn't exactly pleasant. And it turned out, he needed to be taught a few things in bed as well.