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Kissing after blowjob question.

After browsing over this forum, I figured this might be a good place to ask this question.

My girlfriend has recently brought up the idea to me about giving me a blowjob, then kissing me before she's swallowed. She's also brought up the idea of me climaxing on her, then licking it off. She's told me that it would turn her on really badly if I did that. I'm a little reluctant, mostly because of the stigma it would have. So my question is, would this be beyond the limits of anybody here?

Not me.
Swallowing is an individual call. Some people want to; like to; or, say "no way Jose". It is always recommended for a couple to experiment and learn together. She may want to swallow, now, and after having done so, may not want to do it any more.

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There are some opinions... basically like they said.. it's all preference. Some guys/gals aren't into it... some LOVE it...

Doc she was talking about her basically snowballing or him cumming on her and then licking his own cum off of her.

Flyer...doc is right though it is an individual call...I mean it just depends on the person. Me personally idk. Theoretically if my girlfriend really wanted me too, I would have to be incredibly turned on. Like hard as a rock havent had sex in a million years sort of thing....but i wont know until i actually try it. If you are really reluctant but you still want to do it for her, try to compromise...for instance say to her "i will do this for you (once in a while of course) if you do this once in a while" Her fantasy in exchange for your fantasy. (make sure its in reason though like dont do that in exchange for an orgy or sumthing...like you do that if she surprises you with a good morning bj or sumthing...equality)

Wimp! Come on now. Face it! If you can do cunnilingus and expect her to kiss you afterward why can't you do this? It is yours, after all. Tsk tsk! You kids are soo inhibited! LOL *making chicken noises at you* You could at least TRY it.

But yes, some guys have the cajones and some guys don't.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;193860]
But yes, some guys have the cajones and some guys don't.[/QUOTE]

Well EEK it may not even be that...it just may mean that sum guys are incredibly aroused. I mean what about when woman have an orgasm and they are a lot more receptive? My girlfriend has no problem letting me cum in her mouth if she has already had her share of O's (1-2) I asked her and she flat out said...if shes really horny, which usually happens more after she finishes...then she actually finds the idea of it incredibly arousing...when shes not already horny the idea turns her off completely.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;193860]Wimp! Come on now. Face it! If you can do cunnilingus and expect her to kiss you afterward why can't you do this? It is yours, after all. Tsk tsk! You kids are soo inhibited! LOL *making chicken noises at you* You could at least TRY it.

But yes, some guys have the cajones and some guys don't.[/QUOTE]

....Ew....

I have no desire to kiss my girlfriend if she swallows until she has rinsed it down with something. Nor would I expect her to kiss me after her juices flow into my goatee. And unless I interpreted you wrong, is she asking for you to lick YOUR juices off of her? I find my semen gross, not because of any religious beliefs or upbringing, it's just nasty.

Well, although I'm gay I've never been a fan of ingesting semen, mine or others (although mine is easier). The big problem is once I've blown the idea is infinitely LESS appealing, since sex at that point becomes a "finish up" job . . . . I don't have monster lust driving me anymore, so intimacy and cuddling are more in my line than bodily juices. But if the other person hasn't gotten there yet I'll do what I can to help 'em out. That, however . . . . eh, probably not.

[QUOTE=Yariome;193865]....Ew....

I have no desire to kiss my girlfriend if she swallows until she has rinsed it down with something. Nor would I expect her to kiss me after her juices flow into my goatee. And unless I interpreted you wrong, is she asking for you to lick YOUR juices off of her? I find my semen gross, not because of any religious beliefs or upbringing, it's just nasty.[/QUOTE]

I figured i should say it before EEK does...it may be less cruel lol.

Yariome...for lack of a better word you a P***Y. Now licking your own cum yeah thats a personal opinion. But not kissing your girlfriend until she rinses...I mean come on. If my girlfriend is going to be curteous and loving enough to put her mouth on my parts, i will sure as hell kiss her. In fact i find it pretty interesting. after she goes down on me and swallows...or spits depending on her mood...she usually gives some of the most passionate kisses and her lips and tongue feel almost 100 times softer...simply amazing....

DVDBear...i guess thats why teenage hormones are so awesome. even when i finish i still cant get over it...lol...and your right though my own juices doesnt sound all to apealing to me.

[QUOTE=Yariome;193865] I find my semen gross, not because of any religious beliefs or upbringing, it's just nasty.[/QUOTE]

then why should your girl think any different? :rolleyes:

She shouldn't have to, I was saying in a theoretical situation, she rarely swallows. She finds it just as gross as I do, so please don't assume otherwise.

And yes, I would ask her to rinse her mouth, and she does me. So how does that make me a pussy? It's a personal preference, so if that makes me a pussy so be it, rather be that rather than a hypocrite.

As said before its all personal preference. I have friend who will cringe at the thought of having a guy kiss them after oral, and I have others who dont see it as a big deal. Personally I dont mind at all. Ive gone down on a guy and he willingfully allowed me to kiss him afterwards. Ive had guys go down on me and I have no problem kissing them.

I dont see what the big deal is. I mean sure some people may not like the tase, but as said before "personal preference". But, for me atleast, in the heat of the moment, your not exactly thinking about the taste ;)

It has nothing to do with the taste in my situation, I just don't like the way it feels, looks ect, as well as the same with when I try to kiss my girlfriend after giving her oral. She doesn't like the idea of her kissing her own juices.

Im sorry yar..ur right it is preference, but i honestly find it more curteous that anything. sort of like a thank you...i dont mind the after taste to it...since usually its pretty much out of her mouth maybe a bit residual flavor, but i wouldnt lick an entire load off of her, or snowball with her.

Well I was over exaggerating when I meant she had to literally rinse her mouth out, as long as she has completed swallowed with no residue I can usually kiss her, but not full blown tongue and what not. That I do ask for her to rinse.

BTW it is courteous. You're welcome.

I swallow - why waste good protein? Some men's semen tastes better than others but, hey, it is all part of the fun. Much of sex is gross and what one person finds gross another may not. Sex is often a messy business as well but if one is going to indulge in adult fun, one has to be adult. Interestingly enough, what you find gross with one person, you may not with another person! And many things sound worse than they actually are in practice.
Yes, I do know how I taste too, thank you.

Exactly, and I can respect that 100%, more power to you. I'm only 20 though, still young, who knows how I will feel in 20 years.

What is something you think you'd want to try but haven't already?.. Part of me thinks that cumming on some part of her body that you haven't before is one of those things..

Today.. My boyfriend did the *in-out* on my mouth while i was lying on my back and he hovered over me, then he came all over my chest and i loved it.

This one time... I gave him head and after he came, i kept flicking my tongue on his penis and his body convulsed. His convulsions made me even wetter than I was before I started licking his penis.

Anyway... She wants you to climax on her then YOU LICK IT OFF or she licks it off her self after you climax?...

To be honest as of right now I don't want to cum anywhere but inside the condom, her mouth, or inside of her. Like I said before, I Find it gross in MY opnion, nothing turns me off more than a facial and/or my juices dripping off her body.

Swallowing is a different story, I find it satisfying in the sense she enjoys everything about me, but I could care LESS if she does or not because sex to me isn't where I leave my left overs.

now yariome in 20 years your gonna be totally opposite. snowballing facials the whol shabang lol

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