All I can say is... handcuffs and whipped cream baby.

Yes I'm only 130 lbs, so I love it when a slightly larger GF, straddles my face, and restrains me by holding my hands above my head, and telling me to eat her. Just a major turn on.

Watersports are definatly out of the question but i love to be dominated when a girl dominates a man and tells them what to do is a major turn on. Telling them how much to penetrate and how fast or hard to do them is a large turn on.

Or "Me, Myself & Irene"

[QUOTE=Quote (LittleFury @ April 13 2004,23:23)]Or "Me, Myself & Irene"[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Quote (thomas charles @ April 13 2004,20:16)][QUOTE=Quote (oberon @ April 11 2004,21:50)]This reminds me of an old joke.  What is the difference between erotic and kinky?  Erotic is when you use a feather; kinky is when you use the whole chicken. [/QUOTE]
i dont get the chicken fing. is it cos chickens are meant to be fluffy? wdnt it hurt her a bit like?[/QUOTE]
Rent the movie "Pink Flamingos" by John Waters.

ahahahah...Oberon....email me and i'll get u the site info on TENS and Paddles!

As for the rest of ya'll....C'MON!!!!!!!!!!! POST !

Geez Rawbob... I thought I could get away with a cheap joke and now I have to come back to this topic...lol.

I know what far too many of those things are, but I actually wanted to make another point.  One of diversity.  I have touched on a few of those things on your list- B&D: just the bondage part though, not into degradation, tickling, and a little leather ( a friend of mine says, "There are two types of drag- leather and chiffon...LOL)- but I have to admit I am much more into "vanilla sex" as you call it.  I've never seen the need for all those exotic playthings and scenarios.  And while my sex life may be somewhat ordinary, it has never been boring.

I am not by any means deriding anyone who participates in all the activities that you list- if you enjoy them, go for it- but I just though it was interesting that the two most vocal gay people on this board had such a widely different sexual view.  I guess that casts me in the role of the conservative... Hmm... I'm not sure I like that....  where did you say I could get one of those electrostimulation machines?...and maybe a paddle...

Well, using the word KINK opens up a huge set of definitions - and i'm sure we all can agree that everyone defines KINKY individually.

Most would defind KINKY PLEASURES as being any form of sexual/sensual activity beyond basic oral sex and intercourse - or as I like to call it - VANILLA SEX.

Once you step past "vanilla sex" you enter a new realm of sexu-sensu-ality that has it's own wide spectrum of activites, rules and realities.

That said, I think it's very inconsistent to accept one form of "kink" while bashing another (ie: the comments about watersports). For me the rules i live by are: SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL. Specific areas i do not and will not condone are: Drugs, Sex with Animals, Sex with Children, or "snuff-related" play.

Ok, so now you know what i will NOT do and what guides my "kinky side."....so what DO or HAVE i done? Well, lets have some fun. Below you will find a list of activities and/or protochols that I frequently engage in. Let's see how you folks do in getting the definitions. (NO CHEATING BY USING THE INTERNET! hahahaha).

- CBT
- TT
- WS
- FF
- B&D
- S&M
-D/S
- Electrostimulation
- Flogging
- Singletail
- Mummification
- Temp Piercing
- Knife/Needle Play
- TPE
- Forced Chastity
- Spaning/Paddling
- Strap-on
- Body Shaving
- Tickling
- Leather

I'll follow up based on what questions come up! Oh, yes, i'm "kinky"....but my life is fully balanced!

This reminds me of an old joke. What is the difference between erotic and kinky? Erotic is when you use a feather; kinky is when you use the whole chicken.

Hey pepper kat. Nope, I don't think it's wrong that you like it when your boyfriend overpowers you like that. Your just that kind of person and you enjoy the feeling that comes with that... -grins-. Hey, we all have our fantasies that we like to fantasize about alot don't we? And getting raped by your boyfriend must just be one of them, so it's all good.

As for me, I don't like toilet either. Watersports and those things can stay in the bathroom toilet as far as I'm concerned.

As for what i find "kinky". I'm usually the one initiating sex, or being on top, which is fine. No I'm not the submissive type of guy but I have to admit that when I see my girl's "wild" side you might say it's a big big turn on for me. I think partly it's because she's usually the shy one, but then seeing her suddenly change in persona makes me go wow -wink-, tis good.

Okay theres a whole range of kinky positives! Me and my boyfriend discovered we are very kinky For some reason i love it when he overpowers me, sometimes i just want him to be rough on me. I guess in a way i want him to rape me. Is that so wrong?

For the negative list farting and going ot toilet on people is so frigging wrong. I canot see how people find that a turn on.