A very basic form of 'kink' can be cum play, assuming that you don't already. It can range from him cumming on a part of your body to you using his cum to play with yourself. A lot of different things to do there.

Mild restraints, such as scarves or ties can be fun as well, for a bondage feel without the full throes of it, or if you want to move more in that direction cuffs and rope.

Toy play and video also work, although it depends on how much you trust your partner. Toys are my absolute favourite as they tend to surprise your partner. You can introduce them into your routine by putting on a little show for your partner (masturbating while they watch), and then inviting them to use them on you.

Sneak up behind your lover whilst they stand infront of a full-length mirror and have your way with them. What exactly you do is up to you, but I would suggest starting slowly with some passionate kisses on the shoulders and neck, gradually becoming more and more aggressive as your hands and mouth explore and caress your partner. They'll be forced to watch you take control and manipulate their body, which can be quite arousing. You could also reverse roles and have your partner do this to you instead.

Ive got this problem with my gf she knows the basics but nothing too dirty which is annoying lol Ive got a few ideas of my own e.g. handcuffs, role play but i cant think of anything else....

im 18 and i've been with my bf for almost 3 years.
i noticed that some of my friends complained about how boring sex can get so we try really hard to not let our sexual experiences be like that.

Find out the top 3 places he wants to have sex and do it there.
I tried using a blindfold once and we had absolutely incredible sex. I put it on him and made him lie down. Then i kissed and caressed his body before giving him oral. At the same time I was talking to him and teasing him. Not being able to see me drove him wild and it built up the sex drive alot. I would suggest doing that.
Hair pulling is also something that alot of guys like so you might be open to trying that as well.

Keep it simple..dress like a slut for him only and enjoy some tasty beverages...smile! He'll like your smile...and look deep in his eyes...have fun!!

obviously trying different positions can assist in making it enjoyable & different, but to make it spicier, just let your imagination roll, read some naughty books that helps!! Gives you ideas, some you can adapt to your liking etc!!

I'm new to sex but, I've always had a fantasy about. Being handcuffed and blindfolded in my bed. Getting oral from my girl, and she kisses me on the lips after i cum in her mouth.

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That should be kinky enough for him.

Show up wearing only a pair of stilletos carrying a whip and say "on your knees, bigboy!" then he can do some cunnilingus.

[QUOTE=sjthechef;237114]I'm new to sex but, I've always had a fantasy about. Being handcuffed and blindfolded in my bed. Getting oral from my girl, and she kisses me on the lips after i cum in her mouth.[/QUOTE]

This is a pretty common fantasy. You should talk to your girlfriend about it an dact it out. You can get plastic handcuffs that are easily released at one of those weird gift stores that are in most mall; the ones with all the young people dressed in black.

"the ones with all the young people dressed in black." So funny. So true.

or you can find police grade ones in the sketchier parts of most large cities...

get sum whip cream and use your tongue 2 make it nasty or have him preform this on you