Okay!! Hi, first post... hi... if you have time to read, then you're n the right place. here's the senario....

About a couple of years back, I had a girlfriend who said she was a virgin. Funny story, 1 week she says she was a virgin, but a few days later she says she wasn't anymore... quite devastating for the monogamous boyfriend, lol. Anyways, when we did, I never came at all... she did (apparently) almost all the time, but I never did... no wait, I did once, but only that once. We were intimate many many times, but it wasn't enjoyable with her.

Hell, I'm not even sure why I wanted to be with her... never took baths with soap, deodorant doesn't exist to her, her house was terrible... while we had sex, I remember looking to my side and a bunch of roaches were just staring at us, some were drooling, one had popcorn! Okay, my point...

Is it so weird for me not to have any pleasure with her? I mean, it was generic sex... she never wanted to switch positions... weird odors were everywhere (and I'm not talking about vaginal odors either)... she gave me oral, which was also not fun. I wanted to learn how to perform oral on someone else, but I was afraid to do it to her (for obvious reasons). I still consider myself a virgin since I haven't experienced much... or learned anything...

Since then, I haven't had any sexual encounters (it's been a year now). I admit, this girl turned me off of sex for a while. Now, I have a new girlfriend, and we may be heading into that direction. She's much cleaner, :rolleyes:. I really like her, but I still feel kinda discouraged from my past experiences.

What should I do, sex gurus? Do you find any of this weird on my part? SHOW ME THE GLORY HOLE OF MY WAYS!... forget I said that. lol