i've only quite recently started having sex w/ my bf. we've done it a few times now...i know the sensation for a guy is extra good when the girl's tighter (more friction etc. etc. on his penis)...so as i'm having sex quite regularly...will that make me rlly loose and decrease the pleasure for my partner??? how can i remain tight-ish or is it impossible (i don't want to have injections or any of that strange stuff u hear about!!)
thanks!
uncreativename
After having your hymen worn away and learning to relax, the next major event to loosen you up will be childbirth. Normal sex has little effect on how tight you are. We are what we are until giving birth.
Muscle tone is important before and after childbirth. Kegel exercises are worthwhile and, while they do not make you tighter, allow you to control the pressure you exert with your PC muscles and you can learn some good tricks then.
The flip-side to this is that if intercourse is uncomfortable because the vaginal opening is naturally small and has not had the opportunity to stretch easily that happens over time, then I have recommended that she stretch the vaginal opening by hand while sitting in a bathtub of warm water. This exercise takes several days to a few weeks. This won't afffect his pleasure but it has a great deal to do with enjoying comfortable penetration when it has not been.
[QUOTE=Quote (Brandye @ Dec. 20 2005,14:53)]After having your hymen worn away and learning to relax, the next major event to loosen you up will be childbirth. Normal sex has little effect on how tight you are. We are what we are until giving birth.
Muscle tone is important before and after childbirth. Kegel exercises are worthwhile and, while they do not make you tighter, allow you to control the pressure you exert with your PC muscles and you can learn some good tricks then.[/QUOTE]
thanks brandye!! where cn i find info about these kegel exercises?
The PC muscle is located on the floor of the crotch. It is the same muscle that you squeeze to stop the flow or urine.
The exercise can be done anytime anywhere. Just squeeze, hold, and release the pressure on the muscle over and over. You can do this while urinating, while sitting in a charir any where any time. or while walking along the street.
The more reps you do over time, the stronger the muscle becomes. Do a few for each exercise.
[QUOTE=Quote (dancingdoc2 @ Dec. 21 2005,19:15)]The PC muscle is located on the floor of the crotch. It is the same muscle that you squeeze to stop the flow or urine.
The exercise can be done anytime anywhere. Just squeeze, hold, and release the pressure on the muscle over and over. You can do this while urinating, while sitting in a charir any where any time. or while walking along the street.
The more reps you do over time, the stronger the muscle becomes. Do a few for each exercise.[/QUOTE]
thanks a lot!! will be trying that!