Many women cannot have orgasm by intercourse alone. So don't feel inadequate, it's perfectly normal. However, I don't mean to sounds mean or anything, sounds like he doesn't do his job. LEt him know how you're feeling, and ask him to try something new. You could try just taking time out and just focus on you, even without having intercouarse. If he complains about you not getting him off after that, you go ahead and tell him that it's rather fair, cuase that how it was for you. Once again, really not trying to sound mean, just real tired and it makes me rather brutally honest. Find out from him what things he is willing to do to get you off. Find out why he doesn't really like giving oral. Start from there. Good luck.

ive actually never had a problem with this. However, many people I know have. One thing you can do is have him pleasure you a bit b4 hand. Since he doesnt like giving oral, maybe he can finger you.
Hope this helps some.

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