Any girls out there who can get off easily through sex but fingering and oral takes a good long time?
I mean I was fingering my partner today and she was a little well....bleh about it. I mean she didnt really enjoy it too much....I asked her what I was doing wrong, and she said that she just really couldnt feel anything, so I tried some new tricks and still nothing. So a little heart to heart revealed that she only feels things through sex, like thats the only way she can get off....without a whole bunch of work...
*edit....Yes I am talking about sexual intercourse when I say sex
Depends on the mood. For the most part, intercourse is the only thing for me....she may find as she gets older the sensations increase through oral /digital stimulation which make a good tease. The easiest way to an orgasm? Penetration for me--easy to please :)
FYI Ducy;
You will learn to build your stamina....LOL!
Unless she is telling you more than you are telling us, she really is not conveying a lot of useful information to you, Ducy.
> she said that she just really couldnt feel anything, so I tried some new tricks and still nothing.
What? Is she numb? I doubt this, so what does she mean by "really couldn't feel anything"? It seems to me you require "graphic information". Certainly she feels something when she masturbates, so why not when you touch her?"
Which is why she has to be warmed-up before you go for her G-Spot.
Whoa whoa whoa!!! I never said anything about my stamina if anything I need to have it torn down cuz its too much for her at times since hers is almost non existent. I mean I spent about 30 minutes teasing her, just kissing her entire body and teasing her, and she was done with just a few thrusts...(proud day for me lol)
My goal is still to get her to ejaculate EEK...seems interesting lol but if she cant oh well.
Well doc pretty much it was I can feel your fingers inside me but it just feels like your fingers are in there...no pleasure from it
Please, Ducy, do not 'set yourself up' like many OP's here by marrying someone whose libido does not match your own.
EEk I just turned 18 lol marraige isnt in my future till im at least out of college. And her libido matches mine pretty well. (sometimes more than me) she just finishes quickly (thankfully she doesnt mind more ;))
[quote=Ducy;203376]EEk I just turned 18 lol marraige isnt in my future till im at least out of college. And her libido matches mine pretty well. (sometimes more than me) she just finishes quickly (thankfully she doesnt mind more ;))[/quote] Okay Ducy....build up your "stamina" together...okay? Penetration does wonders for me...the rest is just a tease....a bit like play time for me. Had to figure out the stamina with the ex-fiance...he went for (I swear, no kidding) three hours straight...I had to learn not to walk funny or be too sore...once you get in sink with the other all works out. No marriage for you though...not now...And yes, a few men who know how to use their tools...can go for that long.
Oh yea definitely looking forward to building up our stamina together ;)
I think I will stick with 40 minutes for now...maybe when I am on my own Ill try for longer since I dont have to worry bout anyone coming home early :(