So... What exactly is a man's orgasm? Is it just when they cum? Or is it something different? Can we make them moan and beg for more like they can do to us?
If the last question can be correct, what are some ways to achieve this? Getting my boyfriend to cum is an easy task, but how can I make it better for him?
Tonight is our anniversary... Any ideas? :D
A man's orgasm, similar to your's is a sudden release of built up tension in many muscles. They then all go into spasm. It is in a more concentrated portion of the body than yours. The male orgasm almost always results in ejaculation and frequently those terms, for men, are used interchangeably. If you are dripping, he came. We women have not such definitive "tell" that we have reached orgasm.
The man reaches a point where orgasm or ejaculation is an absolute must. At that point you are absolutely in control. The longer he lingers in that state, the more tension builds up and the more intense the release. Our orgasms are a bit more complex than men's and we often end up asking for more of this and less of that. Similar stuff is going on in a man's mind but he is so much only a part of his penis that some become absolutely silent in this intense focus. The male orgasm is more physically dependent than yours; yours is more mentally dependent than his. We are different.
A little late for tonight. The best place to learn how to set off fireworks for each other is the book, the Joy of Sex. That will give you ideas to last a loooong time. Read it together and add to the learnimg - and the practicing!
...im new to these things but im a dude and i know for a fact that if a girl tried new positions and did exotic things any guy on earth would want more ... personaly i hope i can please my partner i wasnt worried about me so maybe thats what hes goin through...donno
you guys are girls and seem to know alot and i respect that can u help me? i posted a new topic thing and its asking if som1 can teach me som things abou t how to have sex,where to place my part...that kind of thing
New2thi111,
You are putting crap all over the board and one of your teenybopper friends may respond on some of the forums - inexperience advising ignorance.
This forum, however is different: It is for women only and I will tolerate no crap. One more post here and you will be banned from the Board. In the meantime, place your "part" in either hand and do whatever feels good.
this is only like my 2nd post, im a bit embarrased. my bf likes licking my vagina, but i find it quite boring, should he be doing something different or does this just not work for me? thing is i need advise asap as my bf has indicated he wants to do that nxt time he sees me, i feel a bit pressurised. plz giv me some advice?
Well, each of us has those things we like and those we do not like. I love being gone down on; you do not. You may learn to like it with someone who knows how; you may not.
There may be some prep work that would make it more enjoyable - every minute spent, properly, on my breasts saves a minute on other parts. Some women would want other things. Figuring out this sex thing takes patience and practice and we each have our own needs and desires.