I've had sex before, but I'm still really new at all of this, and my boyfriend is a virgin so sex with him is fairly far off. This means that lately we've been entertaining eachother with foreplay, but I just don't feel like I'm turning him on.
I tried giving head during my last relationship, but it made me feel uncomfortable and I didn't really like it much. My new boyfriend brought it up saying that he wouldn't have a problem with giving oral, but I don't really feel confortable with that either...
My last boyfriend loved my handjobs, but my new one doesn't like them much and I just feel useless.
Anybody have any tips? I really want to turn him on, even if it means being a bit uncomfortable.
I'm just kind of nervous I guess...
as a guy who likes giving my girl oral, it is a shock to me that a girl wouldn't want to receive. it's really fun.
But seriously...if you're not comfortable giving or receiving, you may not be mentally prepared to go that far sexually and should just back off for now and enjoy cuddling or something like that. cuddling's probably the most fun thing to do with your partner.
There's plenty of advice all over this site - worth checking it out.
In fairness most of us guys these days come to expect a bit of oral, although you should by no means feel forced into it.
When you say you don't feel comfortable receiving oral, is it that you have never tried it? If you have, you may find your current boyfriend to be better at it than previous relationship(s); if you haven't then you may find you like it.
Good luck.