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Just a couple of questions RE. Female Ejaculation

I am very lucky to have a girlfriend who ejaculates. We've been seeing eachother for 2 months now, haven't had sex, but have been doing quite abit of foreplay.
Anyway, last night we was doing the 69 with her on top, and i was stimulating her clitoris, and at first there was a few drops, then all of a sudden alot came out and went all over my chest. Personally i think this is a BIG turn on....but i was just wondering is it healthy? weird?.....i also had the urge to taste it, but wasn't too sure, is it unhealthy to taste it?
I'm pretty new to female ejaculation, as she is the first girl i've been with that has ejaculated. Does it mean she had an orgasm??

[QUOTE=creamybeaver;255842][COLOR="blue">I am very lucky to have a girlfriend who ejaculates. We've been seeing eachother for 2 months now, haven't had sex, but have been doing quite abit of foreplay.[/COLOR]

Yes, most people will agree with you! I am also happy to learn that unlike a lot of couples who jump right into having intercourse at or near the beginning of a relationship, at the expense of learning about each other in intimate stages, that you have chosen to slowly build trust and intimacy.

[COLOR="blue">Anyway, last night we was doing the 69 with her on top, and i was stimulating her clitoris, and at first there was a few drops, then all of a sudden alot came out and went all over my chest. Personally i think this is a BIG turn on....but i was just wondering is it healthy? weird?[/COLOR]

Yes, this is a healthy experience. Weird? No. Unusual? Often it is.

[COLOR="blue">.....i also had the urge to taste it, but wasn't too sure, is it unhealthy to taste it?[/COLOR]

Not if a person is healthy. Tasting urine is not unhealthy, either. There have been reports over the years of people "stranded on a desert island" who have "recycled" their urine in order to stay hydrated.

The fluid expelled is not urine; rather, it is generally thought to be produced in the Skene's glands that are comprised of the same rudimentary tissue that forms the prostate gland in males. The fluid is secreted by ducts that are adjacent to the opening of the urethra.

Over the centuries there has been much world-wide debate concerning the source of the fluid, how it is formed, how and when it appears. For all doctors and scientists know and understand about the human anatomy and its functioning, this is one area that the medical and scientific communities debate to this date!

Orgasms are not the biological imperative for women that they are for males of the species; meaning, not all women climax. Of those women who can and do, many do not do so regularly. Intimacy, making love, and intercourse, can be extremely satisfying even though an orgasm does not happen. It is important for men to understand that we do not give orgasms away. Each person, male and female, is responsible for his/her own orgasm. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help our partner achieve them. So, if your partner does not have an orgasm, do not fret or be unhappy--certainly not if you have made your love making pleasurable and satisfying overall.
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I'm pretty new to female ejaculation, as she is the first girl i've been with that has ejaculated. Does it mean she had an orgasm??[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

Maybe, maybe not. You will have to ask her. Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other. Communication and providing feedback {verbal and non-verbal) on how we are responding to our partner's kisses and caresses is key.

The female orgasm is a more internal experience than it is for males; therefore, they are not always detectable by us. So, while you can ask her if she has had an orgasm, a better more caring less problematic approach is for her to let you know by some cue that she has. This can be a smile, squeeze of the hand, a sigh, a "WHEW!", etc., whatever the two of you work out. Letting you know in some manner is not only good etiquette, doing so can eliminate a man's angst.

Explore and learn together in partnership.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;255843]I am also happy to learn that unlike a lot of couples who jump right into having intercourse at or near the beginning of a relationship, at the expense of learning about each other in intimate stages, that you have chosen to slowly build trust and intimacy.
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This is something we spoke about a few weeks into our relationship, and we both agreed to take it slow, and get to know eachother emotionally and sexually before we have sex. The sexual experiences we have shared so far has been more enjoyable than any sex i have had in the past, simply because we are experimenting with foreplay, and getting to know eachothers bodys.

As for her ejaculating, at first i was kind of surprised and wondered what it was until i realised she must have ejaculated, and at first she was embarassed until i told her its a good thing, and i find it hot. I just hope the sex is just as satisfying, becasue i seriously cant see how its going to be after the amazing experiences we have already experienced.

> I just hope the sex is just as satisfying, becasue i seriously cant see how its going to be after the amazing experiences we have already experienced.

Why would you say or even think that it can't be. ("Can't" is not a word.)

Making love is not what we do to each other, it should be about what we do with and for each other in partnership. That said, "it" can be if the two of you explore and learn together and work at "it". It's important to understand that orgasms from intercourse are different than from masturbation or foreplay, often being less intense although not necessarily less pleasurable. So too, are the emotional pleasures. Intercourse addresses a person's psyche, thus the gratification we derive has more to do with the outward expression of the love two people share. Because intercourse has more to do with satisfying the psyches and emotions, as pleasurable as orgasms are, those that result from hand/oral stimulation as in foreplay tend to be far more intense!

You, as part of a couple, can have our cake and eat it, too. When making love, do you want--
* physical pleasure
* emotional satisfaction
* both

The vagina is a gateway to the soul and a way for two hearts and minds to meet via intercourse. Pure unadulterated physical pleasure can be had from and by all necking and petting and foreplay that comes before.

So, intercourse can be "just as satisfying", it all depends upon what your objective is.

It is currently believed in the medical community that the fluid from female ejaculation is from the Skene's glands and some even refer to that as the "female prostate." Some women may be considered pseudo-ejaculators" if urine is the fluid. If it does not smell like urine, then it is from the Skene's which are located along the urethra to the front of the vagina.

There are women who do ejaculate; women who do not; and, women who occasionally do. It is not controllable and is quite safe.

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