My boyfriend and I have been dating now for a little over 11 months. We have sex...pretty frequently. There's nothing really WRONG with our sex life, but I cannot, for the life of me, orgasm while he's on top. There's really nothing wrong with what he's doing, it feels great and I'll feel like I'm about to orgasm...but then it just never happens. Oral sex, fingering, me on top first and then him on top, non-stop hitting the g-spot for...well, as long as he can take. I guess the angles aren't right? Or is there anything else we could POSSIBLY do?
Any suggestions would be much appreciated
It sounds to me like there are two things going on that might very well be hindering your success. It's just a guesstimation, but here is my take on what you have related:
* You are being distracted
* He is not fingering you consistently or continually
If a person cannot focus on what is happening then we cannot progress toward an orgasm.
If the two of you are using a position that prevents continuous and ongoing contact with the female genitalia, then a woman cannot hope to accumulate the required build up of stimulation. If you are using the Missionary or the Rear Entry, etc., in which the woman's clitoris and genitals only get friction on a hit and miss basis then you cannot expect her to achieve an orgasm.
These positions require that the man reach around and finger the woman all the while the two are having intercourse. It's that simple.
Thanks. We'll be sure to try that. :D