So i've been fooling around with this girl, mostly making out, fingering and her giving me oral. She just told me she has HPV. I like her alot, but staying with her knowing that even if i use a condom i will most likely get HPV is absolutely stupid correct?
Sat, 09/13/2008 - 14:40
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Just been Told girl has HPV
First you need to back up about 12 steps and stop the sex stuff and talk to her.
She has it now or was treated for it?
If she has active HPV...sorry, I would not be sexually involved on any level & I'd tell her to go see a doc ASAP. Doubt I would date her again if she allowed a virus to go without medical treatment.
You need more information. There are 100 or so HPV strains. Some (4) are associated with cervical cancer many years later; some cause chicken pox; some, measles; some genital warts. You need to know what she is talking about to determine what the level of risk is.
If she has genital herpes, condoms give only limited protection because the lesions may be outside the area covered by the condom. People can, and do, have satisfying relationships with one partner genital herpes positive. It requires education, love, tolerance and care.
In short, at your apparent age, no need to risk it. Move on. And thank her. She was honest and that needs to be reinforced.
what if I found out that she found out she got it two years ago, wouldnt her body of supressed it to the point of being non-contagious? Yes? No? Different places say different things
1. Find out what HPV she is referring to.
2. Maybe. Want to take a chance that will last the rest of your life?
3. Different places say different things because your question lacks the specifics to respond to.
If you are not willing to find out what you are dealing with, you cannot get answers anywhere.