There were times that when I was having sex I would dry up and the guy would still be hard, and I felt bad that we hadnt finished. Once I jsut let him finish, and then other time I just gave him a handjob to finish him off. Are there any tricks to keeping wet when that happens? Will that hurt m eventually if he continues inside of me when i am dry?
Sat, 08/26/2006 - 22:48
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Perhaps for all questions the answer is to have a tube of lubricant handy in the nightstand.
yea except i dont like using lube
[QUOTE=Forgotten love]yea except i dont like using lube[/QUOTE]
What don't you like about lube? Maybe you haven't found a type that works for you? I have tried a couple of types and had the best experiences with astroglide.
There are lubes and there are LUBES. They are not all the same. Some are water-based, silicone-, or oil-. As noted, above, they do not all perform the same way. If the man is wearing a condom, then find out what type is recommended for the type (Latex, Poly, Natural) of product. You may have to try more than one product to find the one that suits you, although I agree that Astroglide is a very good one and when it dries, you can reactivate it with some saliva or simply more of the stuff.
You can also use some household products. For more information on this, please do an advanced search using my name and the search term: sesame
You will find a couple of my replies that will provide more insight and info.
i dont know just never really liked the feel of the lube. I always had the thought, that if you have to use lube, then you dont know really how to have sex. (I know that is silly) What could cause the dryness?
There isn't really anything that causes it.. its just sex uses up your natural lube.
I also dry up quick when we are in the bedroom and the ceiling fan is on.
Sometimes if I start to dry up... my b/f will go down on me for a min and get me wet again... then start back.
And yes... if you are dry and he continues.. it hurts!! especially the next day when everything down there is rubbed raw :(
Forgotten,
You asked a question and got the best possible answers from three sources. You reject the responses so live with the problem.
Some of us women produce copious lube; some very little and there is nothing any of us can do to change that. That is why there are "personal lubricants" on the market.