Hey all, here is my problem,
I'm 16 atm, and my bf is also, we've just started becoming sexually active, and the night after my formal he slept over and we got some stuff happening, we did everything as you would a beginner: oral, fingering, then when the time came to having sex he didn't fit me...
We're both virgins and new at things, and I've masturbated with a finger seeing that it fits easily, but we've tried a few more times since then and still won't fit..
Can I please have some advice to what I should do? It's frustrating us both and I'm feeling embarrassed about it.. like the night of the formal was such a let down that this had to happen... =(
You're not alone in that department either.
yeah... haven't really had the opportunities to try that much just yet..
But sometimes the natural lube that you have isn't enough. I can literally be dripping wet and it's not enough to help with intercourse. I need a little more.
You can always ask him to give you some more head. If you give him a bit of guidance you've got a natural lubricant after all.
Cheers,
Ringo
Don't feel embarassed, you're quite normal.
I myself am narrow down there. I have been able to get a slim vibrator in me, but not him, and it drove me bonkers.
I personally recommend starting with a slim plastic vibrator. It will atleast help you some down there. Then, work your way up to a little bit bigger one (bigger around, not longer).
I also recommend getting some astroglide personal lubricant. It really does work wonders...atleast for me.
While, we've never done it again to prove the astroglide helps, I can say that I now have no problem getting the bigger vibrator in me (well, depending on what position i'm in, but that's another story) without even starting out with the slimmer one.
Hope this helps some.
eyy! thanks fr the advice I'll givee it a try.. hmm yes, take advantage of the chemist up the road...
You're welcome.
Just keep in mind it may continue to hurt for a while but eventually, you should get used to the stretching involved.