My girlfriend and I made love for the first time a couple of weeks ago. We are each others first. The first time, she said it really hurt and we had to stop. The second time which was this past weekend, it was much better, it stop hurting for her and felt good. The weird part about the whole thing is that I did not ejaculate our first time because it wasn't very long (she was in pain). The second time I went for one hour before I could. Is something wrong? I've always heard of us guys "bustin" it early within a half a min or so. I hope I don't sound boastful, but I think it is weird. I heard you can't feel much with a condom on is that true? I did use a condom and it was a regular trojan with lube version. Do you think I would have been more sensitive and ejaculated much earlier if I had not had the condom on? Also during that hour, she said she think she had an orgasm not once but 3 times? She said she reached a point where it was "SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Gooooood" something she never felt she said, even better than when I perform oral on her. Again I don't want to sound boastful, I just want to know if this is weird or not? I think some of you might be saying or wanting to tell me to just shut up and enjoy... I'm all new to this so please be kind.
Thank in advance to any replies.
Sounds like you both are on a positive direction...keep practicing, use birth control, and let all inhibitions go!!!
Don't worry about it, just have fun.
"it was a regular trojan with lube version."
Ha... priceless...
Happy humping!
Yea same thing happened with me...lucky she has stamina cuz me and my first had to stop before I could lol. Nothing is wrong...try masterbating with the condom on. Or switch to polyeurethane. I find they transfer heat better, and I can feel a lot more.
[QUOTE=SinfulExchanges;202187]My girlfriend and I made love for the first time a couple of weeks ago. We are each others first. The first time, she said it really hurt and we had to stop. The second time which was this past weekend, it was much better, it stop hurting for her and felt good.
[COLOR="Navy">As Sera300 stated, it certainly would seem that the two of you are progressing just fine.[/COLOR]
The weird part about the whole thing is that I did not ejaculate our first time because it wasn't very long (she was in pain).
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This is not at all unusual. [/COLOR]
The second time I went for one hour before I could. Is something wrong?
[COLOR="Navy">Please read this article for the answer:[/COLOR]
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping
I've always heard of us guys "bustin" it early within a half a min or so. I hope I don't sound boastful, but I think it is weird.
Neither scenario is weird. Premature Ejaculation is the bane of most guys up to about their mid twenties. Should you experience this and it becomes a problem, then read this article:
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation
I heard you can't feel much with a condom on is that true?
[COLOR="Navy">This varies with the individual; although, a condom does add a layer of "insulation" that will decrease the sensations to one degree or another.[/COLOR]
I did use a condom and it was a regular trojan with lube version.
[COLOR="Navy">I suggest using a regular condom. Discussions on the forums indicate lubed condoms are not worth the price of the lube. Use a separate product. Condoms are made from different materials. Do some research on the net and learn about each type and what their strong and weak points are.[/COLOR]
Do you think I would have been more sensitive and ejaculated much earlier if I had not had the condom on?
[COLOR="Navy">Yes and maybe. Please read the first paragraph in the first article, above. Do not have sex without a condom--period![/COLOR]
Also during that hour, she said she think she had an orgasm not once but 3 times? She said she reached a point where it was "SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Gooooood" something she never felt she said, even better than when I perform oral on her. Again I don't want to sound boastful, I just want to know if this is weird or not?
[COLOR="Navy">These might very well have been orgasms. I recommend that she read the articles in the Index regarding female orgasms.[/COLOR]
The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
Female Sexual Response
I think some of you might be saying or wanting to tell me to just shut up and enjoy... I'm all new to this so please be kind.
Thank in advance to any replies.[/QUOTE]
Please read through the Index. There are many articles in addition to those referenced, above, that the two of you can benefit from.