I will admit that i am a virgin, and I have no problem wit it because i believe it not losing it on a whim. On the same token though i don't really intend to wait for marrige. Instead i have taken a different appraoch and i am going to let fate decide when it will happen, when i feel ready. I know it probbaly differs from person to person, but if you guys could give me a ballpark on what it feels like when you know you are ready to have sex that would be great.
Sat, 07/09/2005 - 04:27
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Is it time?
There is a discussion of this in Brandye's Chick Chat.
You just kinda... know.
With me and my guy, after our attraction was admitted, a couple months later I just knew that he was the one I wanted to lose it to. And up until right before he slipped it in, he made sure that it was what I wanted and that just kinda made it extra special.
I look back on it now and don't regret it in any way, shape, or form. I was happy to lose it to him and couldn't imagine losing it to anyone else.
If I could possibly narrow it down to what it was that made me decide on who I wanted to lose it to, it would be trust. I trusted him. I trusted him to not just take it so he could "score one" and then leave. And he didn't, and that's one of the reasons why I still trust him to this day.
He is not "the one" I'm going to spend my life with... not unless some miracle happens. But I'm happy to say that he is still my friend even if we are having a little fun between the sheets every now and then. And that is another reason why I still trust him. After all we've been through, he's still my friend above everything else, and a good friendship is always a good thing to trust in.
And I will stop babbling now.