When my boyfriend stimulates my clit, it tickles soo much. It usually starts out alright but after a while I become unbearably ticklish and he has to stop because I'm laughing so much. We laugh about it and he tries to help me overcome this by asking what feels good but it still tickles so much! I love they guy and we have fun in other ways but I don't want to laugh forever!! Any ideas on why this happens and how we can stop it?
Mon, 05/03/2004 - 09:12
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it tickles!
It is completely normal. And sometimes my husband can't believe that I can be ticklish like that. But, it's like (if I'm not shaved at the time) the slightest touch of my pubic hair just sets me off. It's hitting all these little nerve endings and a squirm and giggle but it's usually over in a matter of minutes and the tickling sensitivity goes away.
I think what would help is adding a bit mroe pressure, maybe doing the indirect stimulation and more lube, that could do the trick. But first thing would probably be more pressure. You wouldn't believe how some people, I'm one of them, get ticklish every inch of their body if the pressure is too light.
I can be very ticklish and have had my hubby glare at me for busting out laughing when he is trying to touch me. This usually happens in the first couple of minutes of touching and sometimes I find rubbing myself helps me get ready for him.
It could just be ultra-sensitivity. Have you tried indirect stimulation?
Steph
maybe put more pressure on? not loads obviously cuz tht can be painful, but sumtimes if things r lighter they do tickle, so id say try a little harder..but just a bit..
yeah, I think everyone gets a bit nervous, especially at the beginning of a relationship. I think it's good to be able to laugh about these kind of things. We get pretty silly when we're fooling around, and it's cute.
He does finger me too, but I think he thinks that maybe I'll get over the ticklishness with time.
I just wonder if this is a common thing for women and if it does get better after a while!!
Somebody, anybody, just give me a sign!
hhaha thats funny..ive had something like that b4. I guess if it really tickles there isn't much you can do? Or he can finger you without rubbing ur clit? not as good but hey..
Usually when I laugh when doing sexual things..its cuz im kinda nervous/uncomfortable and thats how i show it lol I dunno..maybe thats just me.