Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by reading the Board Notices section--and, also the Index.
What you more than likely require is an education on making out, both the psychology and the mechanics. It is something we all must learn sooner or later and this is why there are so many worthwhile articles listed in the Index.
A. Most likely what you require is much more time making out, no less than half an hour and more if practical
B. Read up on Necking, Petting, Heaving Petting, and Foreplay. There is an earlier post from today that talks about this, however, there is a nice Sticky post or two or three listed in the Index. Please have a looksee.
C. Make out until you are on the verge of a climax. If you are engaging in intercourse, do not enter her until the hand and mouth have brought you to the very brink.
If you are just having a hand job and/or oral sex at this stage, then give her feedback on how you are responding to her caresses and for what you need now. In addition, if you are having trouble getting off from a hand job, take her hand and guide her movements over the course of several sessions until she learns to mimic your unique and specific movements, rhythms, and pressures.
If you are having intercourse and are doing lots and Lots and LOTS and LOTS of stroking in an attempt to build to a climax then you are going about this all wrong, essentially placing the proverbial cart before the horse. As mentioned, this is the "why" of all that fooling around as noted above. Many guys nowadays operate under the misguided misconception that humping away forever is the way to a climax. Maybe if a person is lucky, however, there is a better way.
Excuse me? Are you meaning to tell me that ONE orgasm is all you're offering the lady? When the number one sexual problem in men is pre-mature ejaculation, you're complaining about lasting? Find the sticky post entitled The Program and do it. Then have her do it to you. Take turns.
I agree with Doc. If you're just banging away at her stroking trying to get something up - it is a wonder the lady hasn't kicked your out!
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by reading the Board Notices section--and, also the Index.
What you more than likely require is an education on making out, both the psychology and the mechanics. It is something we all must learn sooner or later and this is why there are so many worthwhile articles listed in the Index.
A. Most likely what you require is much more time making out, no less than half an hour and more if practical
B. Read up on Necking, Petting, Heaving Petting, and Foreplay. There is an earlier post from today that talks about this, however, there is a nice Sticky post or two or three listed in the Index. Please have a looksee.
C. Make out until you are on the verge of a climax. If you are engaging in intercourse, do not enter her until the hand and mouth have brought you to the very brink.
If you are just having a hand job and/or oral sex at this stage, then give her feedback on how you are responding to her caresses and for what you need now. In addition, if you are having trouble getting off from a hand job, take her hand and guide her movements over the course of several sessions until she learns to mimic your unique and specific movements, rhythms, and pressures.
If you are having intercourse and are doing lots and Lots and LOTS and LOTS of stroking in an attempt to build to a climax then you are going about this all wrong, essentially placing the proverbial cart before the horse. As mentioned, this is the "why" of all that fooling around as noted above. Many guys nowadays operate under the misguided misconception that humping away forever is the way to a climax. Maybe if a person is lucky, however, there is a better way.
Excuse me? Are you meaning to tell me that ONE orgasm is all you're offering the lady? When the number one sexual problem in men is pre-mature ejaculation, you're complaining about lasting? Find the sticky post entitled The Program and do it. Then have her do it to you. Take turns.
I agree with Doc. If you're just banging away at her stroking trying to get something up - it is a wonder the lady hasn't kicked your out!