i dont care about making woman orgasm, it isnt somethin thats important, but about a week ago, i was fooling around with my girlfriend and she said after it that she'd orgasmed about seven times. this shocked me cause i didnt notice anything extra there, like more fluid, when woman orgasm is there more fluid? or are there dry ones too? im confused.
kev
Yes, we must watch how we phrase these things.lol No we don't hate you, but you may want to think more about how something is going to sound to other people.
In answer to your question, everyone orgasms differently and there are even different types of orgasms. Surely, you have noticed that not all of your orgasms feel exactly the same. Some seem "stronger" than others. A lot of factors control these things: length of time from last orgasm, degree of sexual arousal, even the temperature.
One more thing, never not try your best sexually. You shouldn't necessarily feel bad if you can't bring the other person to orgasm, but you should always try.
Oh my god, everyone hates me, and i did not mean that at all!
I just meant i wasn't fascinated about it like some of the posts i've read on her, of course i care about her, i did not mean that for one second that i "didn't care". I just meant, that because i understand how hard it is to happen, and how rare a thing it can be amoung woman, that i didn't expect to be achieving that sort of stuff!
It's not something i would set out to do the minute we started to enjoy ourselves because to be honest, i didnt expect that sort of thing to happen because we are young, and i had heard basicvally, never in a million years will it happen.
Im sorry if i offended anyone, thanks for your kindness all the same.
kev
See my reply to the OTHER time you asked this question.
no Sh!t, thats stupid... You should care, besdies, if you don't i kinda hope that she doesnt... because thats pretty selfish.. i dont see why anyone would want to help explain that too you, if you weren't even willing to figure it out on your own, by helping your girl out..
*pfft.
Jamie
Well, the fact that you "don't care" if you bring your partner to orgasm is a BIG problem to begin with.....how would u feel if she didn't care if u came? You'ld probably dump her in a new york minute...so, it comes and little surprise that you don't KNOW if your partner has "cum" anyway.
Every woman is different, some get very wet, some shake, some yell, ....no woman is the same.....but, if you want to be a GOOD lover, you will start to CARE if you are satisfying her to the point of orgasm
Read my other reply.