OK. basically i can get hard pretty easy, which is annoying at times, but naturally it would lead me to believe that I'd have no probs gettin hard when a girls helpin me out!
How wrong I was :S tried stuff the other day, and it just wont stay up, as soon as it's out.. I just dont get it. It must be psychological cos the more it happens the more i dread it happening! (vicious cycle lol)
Anyone else like that? Or gotten over it or whatever, cos it embarasses the hell out of me!
Cheers
Just try to remember sex is suppose to be fun. And if nothing happens- erection-wise- it's not the end of the world. Concentrate on your partner. As LittleFury said that could give you something to take your mind off whether or not you'll get hard. I'm betting that once you tell yourself, "Hey no big deal" that everything works fine. Good Luck!!
its a vicious cycle, you try not to be nervous, but teh more you think about it, hte more nervous you get. nerves really turn the moment down and things happen like you already know. basically you gotta take a deep breathe and reorganise the way you think. you arent alone, heaps of guys have porlly experienced it.
take it easy mate, take it slow....trust me everythign will b alright
Nerves can be a huge part of it. And yes, you're right, that visious cycle is horrible. NExt time, just try to relax and not to worry about it and just go with the flow, plus there are a lot other things you can do then just intercourse, in the process of doing those things you can get hard again. And yeah, I know people who had that happen before.