ok....the first time my girlfriend and i had sex, i lasted about half an hour. then the next three times after that, i lasted about an hour and a half. which i kinda liked because of the number of orgasmisms i gave my girlfriend. now the past two times that we have had sex, i lasted half an hour again. then the last time we went again and lasted i a little longer. i would really like to get back to lasting an hour or an hour and a half.
would anyone have any advice? or have anything that i should try to do?
edj
MAN u always give such a long answer to everything.
Its kinda hard to always read ur long answers. Not complaining i guess i am complementing u for always giving so much thought to so many peoples problems.
I dont really have advice i am still a cherry , But i always hear there is ups and downs in a sexual relationship. Maby the 1 1/2 hour was a up? U might just get it again sometime. Anyhows just wanted to say that thing about edj
Keep it up man!
holy man i just saw u joined same time as me ... U have too much time on ur hands lol
just messin My computer was messed up for a mounth so i guess ur not responding too much .
I dont know what i am saying just saw 200 to 79 .
And i thought i responed alot lol ok man like i said keep it up.
I dunno? Maybe the weed made you last longer, lol.
Could be
stonedrummer85, I'd suggest you two enjoy it while ya got it.
If you have kids...it'll be a lot harder to do when they are around. In time your sexual staying power will diminish as that is just nature.
What demonbuttercup says makes good sense to me. The weed thing.....when I was with my much older lady....I did some and it certainly boosted me and I'm not a tobacco user.
I'd suggest you make and savor these memories now. Keep them in mind to look back on and remember. I'll share an old
memory of my mid twenties here.
I had my g/f at that time in my van for a camping trip up into the mountains of West Virginia. I thought I had everything but I had forgotten the can of catalytic heater fuel..DUH !...real bad mistake. The temps got down to the twenties that night and the van was just a sheet metal delivery type vehicle. No insulation etc so we may as well have been outside. We had no heat and a long cold night was
in store.
We got in our cots and shortly afterwards I was freezing and my back felt like it was bruning cause of the cold. Her cot had the foam rubber mattress fortunately and I bailed out of mine and hopped in the sack with her. I had let her have the cot wit the mat for her comfort. She was cold and so was I so we began to rub against each other and wound up having sex to get warm.
I think we fucked all night long falling asleep in each others arms just long enough to get our breath in order to continue.
It wasn't because we wanted to or even planned to, but it got
us thru the night. By daylight I was able to get out of the bed to start the van and open the engine cover to allow the heat to warm the interior once again. What a night.
She always remembered it as the high point of our campout though.
eDJ
ok, like during the hour and a half we would switch off different postitions. there would be a break there. like maybe a minute. but we have been doing that since our second time. and im not too sure what u mean by technique... she has came out and asked. but only because she knew that it was bothering me. and as far as the weed thing goes, i stopped like a while ago....so i'm doing ok?
do you mean an hour and a half of straight sexual intercourse? or do you include foreplay into that time? if you do mean sexual intercourse, what exactly do you do for that long? I made it an hour and a half once and decided to stop because it was just getting downright dull. and most of the time i'd go a half an hour and she'd be wondering when the hell i was going to cum. I guess it is a little different for you since your gf does get a couple orgasms out of the deal though. but please, share your technique. Sorry i don't have any advice to give though
LOL yeah vaga once I cum, Im done for the most part. If anything I need about 10 minutes of no stimulation or it just hurts. Then after that, maybe I can go back in for seconds. Sometimes when my b/f is taking too long I do start to hurt and eh when is this going to end?
it has nothing to do w/ not having fun or not being attracted to my b/f, its just your body can only take so much till you are raw. Good thing that only happened to him a few occasions.
Stoner, if you are lasting 30+ minutes of straight intercourse, you are doing better than good. A lot of men can't last that long, and couldn't imagine going for an hour, much less an hour and a half....I couldn't either. Just have fun with it, don't worry about it, and it will probably happen again.
Has your g/f come out and asked you why you aren't lasting longer?
Im assuming by your name you smoke weed. Maybe you were more/less stoned on those certain occasions, different weed, I dunno?