if you are refering to making love as oposed to having sex normally making love involves a romantic bond and having sec could but not necesarily imply that there is not a romantic connection and that it is purely for pleasure but different people have different ways of refering to "it"
Think about your relationship do you do it everytime your together???
do you all do a lot of other things together besides sex???
do you both enjoy eachotheres company in public and private???
did you jump right into the sex???
and consider how long it was before you had sex your first time with this person????
theres so many factors its insane but hey take this quiz and see if you pass or fail i think it really does have a little relavence. http://www.gagirl.com/quiz/inlove.html
hm me personally (and a man at that) want more than just sex I need a proper relationship and by this I don't mean I want to wait ages (my last and first we tried only 8 hrs after our first kiss) but that I must feel for the person with in the last and first case I did and do (a bit complicated we are in different countries at the moment but I want to pick up where we left off) if I am happy just sitting there cuddling her all evening then sex or making love is well in line. perhaps when I am older I will change but I think perhaps not.
How do you define "it"? Your questions are incomplete.
if you are refering to making love as oposed to having sex normally making love involves a romantic bond and having sec could but not necesarily imply that there is not a romantic connection and that it is purely for pleasure but different people have different ways of refering to "it"
Think about your relationship do you do it everytime your together???
do you all do a lot of other things together besides sex???
do you both enjoy eachotheres company in public and private???
did you jump right into the sex???
and consider how long it was before you had sex your first time with this person????
theres so many factors its insane but hey take this quiz and see if you pass or fail i think it really does have a little relavence. http://www.gagirl.com/quiz/inlove.html
its not just one of those bull**** quizes it actually gives you some advice
hm me personally (and a man at that) want more than just sex I need a proper relationship and by this I don't mean I want to wait ages (my last and first we tried only 8 hrs after our first kiss) but that I must feel for the person with in the last and first case I did and do (a bit complicated we are in different countries at the moment but I want to pick up where we left off) if I am happy just sitting there cuddling her all evening then sex or making love is well in line. perhaps when I am older I will change but I think perhaps not.