Emotional stress has a huge affect on men, we dont always admit it but its true. If there has been some sort of issue or trouble lately, this might be cause for the suddenly sleepy willy ! Age , testosterone level , physical attraction, guilt and other distractions might also be a factor. If your good looking and an attentive lover, practice good hygene and make efforts to initialize sex with passion, than there might be something goig on with your man. Talk, Talk, Talk. Ask questions, be honest and open. Hope this helps.

Tried talking to him?

You have questions that only he can answer. Once you have those answers any additional questions you may have for us will be better able to be addressed.

Is he an attentive and caring lover?
Are the two of you making love when he is tired and exhausted?
When he looses an erection, do you continue to try to re-establish it with lots of ongoing kisses and caresses?
If so, is he enthusiastic or has he lost interest?

What is the quality and condition of your relationship overall?

It may be that you need to change the time of day you make love. Perhaps waking up early will prove to be better than trying at the end of a busy day.

> is it wrong for me to keep asking for sex or to keep trying when it fails?
or dose this just make him feal bad?

It is not necessarily wrong; however, it is how you ask that may be important. Too much can be interpreted as nagging