So i don't have a small penis, and every time i have sex with my girlfriend i hurt her so much to the point that it's not enjoyable for me to have sex with her anymore. she wants to have sex but it's just hard because it looks like i'm just killing her and i can't enjoy it when she keeps making me stop every 5 minutes. what can i do to make sex stop hurting her? she gets very wet so lube isn't the issue. please help :\
Sun, 01/17/2010 - 23:03
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It hurts her :(


Okay so what are you doing wrong?
1. are you banging into her cervix?
2. are you moving too deeply too quickly in the process?
3. are you using condoms without also lubing them - doesn't matter how wet she gets, condoms are rough - like sandpaper
4. are you just too damn big for this particular woman?
5. are you following all the steps in The Program (found elsewhere on this site) in a leisurely fashion or are you not?
6. are you going above the cervix and not below the cervix as you should be doing?
More information please.
check and see if her virgina is healthy. She might have cut or blister inside of her. Its a deep dark place, we can't see it. OB can gives her better advices. good luck.
virgina? really?
If none of EEKs suggestions seem to match she sould see a gyn to make everything is the way it should be down there.
[QUOTE=TehPostageStamp;250985]So i don't have a small penis, and every time i have sex with my girlfriend i hurt her so much to the point that it's not enjoyable for me to have sex with her anymore. she wants to have sex but it's just hard because it looks like i'm just killing her and i can't enjoy it when she keeps making me stop every 5 minutes. what can i do to make sex stop hurting her? she gets very wet so lube isn't the issue. please help :\[/QUOTE]
How about some feedback regarding EEKs concerns.
My question is "where does she hurt"?
* Is it the cervix?
* Is the discomfort coming from just inside the vagina or further inside?
* Against the anterior or posterior walls?
* Elsewhere?
* Is the discomfort associated with the entrance?
* If so, on the outside or just inside?
* As a result of being stretched?
A generalized answer and a generalized reply are of no real help unless and until some specifics are provided. I too recommend that she get checked out by her doctor. Has she ever had an initial exam before engaging in intercourse? If not, she should have and should have should have an exam ASAP.