Everytime my boyfriend tries to finger me, it hurts. Even if he just touches the opening to my vagina. When he tries to put his finger in, even if he does it slowly, it feels like I'm being pinched or poked with a needle down there.
It even hurts when I do it, but I can still get my finger inside of me. When I do get my finger inside of me, it hurts if I try to move it out and in.
Is this a normal problem for all women? Or is it just me? :confused:
hmm, iunno. you should get that checked out or something. i dont know. i know i have never had that problem.
fingernails maybe?
[QUOTE=orchid]fingernails maybe?[/QUOTE]
Well...I trim my fingernails before i try to penetrate with my finger...and my boyfriend does the same. I was wondering if it could be anything to do with a sensitive hymen? :confused:
I have to say that I agree with you. I dont know what it is either... :confused:
[QUOTE=cs92]Everytime my boyfriend tries to finger me, it hurts. Even if he just touches the opening to my vagina. When he tries to put his finger in, even if he does it slowly, it feels like I'm being pinched or poked with a needle down there.
It even hurts when I do it, but I can still get my finger inside of me. When I do get my finger inside of me, it hurts if I try to move it out and in.
Is this a normal problem for all women? Or is it just me? :confused:[/QUOTE]
Well I'm just as stumped as you are but maybe you aren't horny (or not as horny as you THOUGHT you were) or are tense/unrelaxed. Maybe try getting your boyfriend to touch you in your favorite places and to french kiss you and kiss your body all over to relax you more. Also make sure his finger nails are trimmed and that when he puts his finger in he doesn't insert in at a fully straight angle. Give it a little bit of a curve.
CS92, you simply have a very tight hymen. All hymen have open centers (to allow menstrual fluids out) but some smaller openings than others. Also some hymens are thicker than others. In extreme cases, this has to be cut to allow intercourse.
Every woman should have a gyn exam before becoming sexually active. At this time, I sometimes offer to make things a little easier for my young patients with just a little nick.
It is not "just you," but you seem to be a little tighter than most. Time to get a checkup with a friendly doctor.