Obviously some hang-up he has when the lights are on. So turn them off!

Yes, keep the lights off, or at least low.

* Learn where his hotspots are. The A#1 hotspot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft). One or more additional secondary hotspots are distributed around the Corona Rim. Rubbing these when he is on the brink of an orgasm will rapidly bring about the end.

* Learn how to mimic his unique and specific stroking movements.

* Lubricate your fingers and the shaft of his penis and stoke the shaft and glans using the lightest of touch. This is quite different from stroking with a tight grip in which the skin moves back and forth within your grasp. This type of stimulation results in very intense pleasure!

* Handle one or both testicles, rolling them around in your hands
* Scratch the skin of the scrotum using either a "come here" or a "back off" finger motion. Steady an area of the skin between the thumb and forefinger.

* In addition to any or all of these things, first and foremost is to spend lots of time kissing, caressing, and just simply making out in order to build not only his ardor, but yours as well.

It isn't so much what you do (to us), rather how you do what you do. Here is where one of my adages is appropriate: "Variety is the spice of life." Mix it up and change what you do from time to time so things are not so predictable.

Teasing to build both excitement and anticipation are good tools of your trade. The best excitement is built slowly, not rushed or thru shortcuts and the direct approach. Although, having said that, there is certainly a time a place for the proverbial "Quickie".

Spend quality time fondling adjacent areas to his penis. In addition to scratching the skin of the Scrotum, you can also kneed it by gently "pinching" a bit of skin sac between the tip or side of the thumb and a finger and rubbing. You can do this for a moment and then pick another spot to continue before moving on to other things. It is all the time spent very close to his penis, first, that whets his appetite, excitement, and, anticipation. Want more of a rise out of him? Then begin here, play with his penis for a moment, then return to his balls and scrotum a couple of times. Don't be too excessive about your teasing because you do not want to exasperate him.

If you have lubricated his penis and your fingers, spread some of that onto your palm. Slightly cup your hand and then rub the surface of the Glans as if polishing a doorknob. This will surely make him squirm and moan.

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Perhaps the biggest turn-on form of teasing is to stimulate his penis in whatever way you want and as his tension and excitement build, STOP what you are doing and do something else less intense for a moment or two before continuing with the penis. There is a specific way to do this to the n'th degree of "torture" that requires some training on his part; but for right now, just build his excitement a bit and back off to continue other caresses and letting his sense of urgency subside slightly by sliding back down his arousal curve before giving the penis more attention. The trick is stop what you are doing to his penis before he reaches the point of no return and coasts beyond to have an orgasm. This is where the training comes in and I have written about this so if you want to know more just do an advanced search using my name and the terms:
benchmark
exercise
sense of urgency

Right now if you just keep him well below the level of intensity required to trigger an orgasm, you can have plenty of fun with this, anyway.

I hope all this has been of help. Got questions?

Doc

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suck the earlobe and lick the ear.. my boyfriend loves that.. he also enjoys when i move my breasts up toward his face so that his chin pulls my shirt down so his face is in my chest. also rubbing the genital area helps.

My man loves for me to rub his ass and legs, raking my nails over them. This is with or without pants on. He loves for his balls to be caressed, too. Definitely hit the earlobe, making sure to give tiny little moans as you're kissing/sucking. I lick all around the ear, slowly making my way to the inside of the ear. Make sure you're not giving him a Wet Willy, though! Not too much saliva...just enough that your tongue glides around a bit. Throw in some neck nibbles, too!

Little known piece of information- many guys like their nipples caressed, licked and kissed too.

Make out with him first. If he can't get it up with the lights on, do it in the dark.
When you're kissing, try gradually removing his clothing and let him take yours off in return - tease him a little, keep surprising him, and make sure there's always contact. After most of the clothes are off, start gradually working your way down to his penis; again, teasing him and then returning to something else. Let him play with you a little as well. These will gradually excite him more and more, until he's ready for anything you'll give.

just start playing with him

he should get turned on pretty quick