Is it fun or just wrong?

I can remember one or two same sex experiences when I was a kid. I had never heard of homosexuality at the time, and didn't know what it was. We were just kids fooling around, without really knowing what we were doing. I didn't think anything of it at the time, and it was only as I got older that I realised what it was. I am not gay, feel no sexual attraction towards other males, and have never repeated those sort of experiences.

[QUOTE=cyclefreak;171701]I can remember one or two same sex experiences when I was a kid. I had never heard of homosexuality at the time, and didn't know what it was. We were just kids fooling around, without really knowing what we were doing. I didn't think anything of it at the time, and it was only as I got older that I realised what it was. I am not gay, feel no sexual attraction towards other males, and have never repeated those sort of experiences.[/QUOTE]

That's same thing I use to do when I was little but I did it with girls and boys lol. I don't find men sexual attractive at all and never once have I done it again.

Had a whole lot of bi sex when I was in grade school/highschool. One of my buddies father passed away and his mother had to work so his house was empty from the time we got out of school till 6:30 each weekday. We took advantage of it almost every day. That continued till we discovered that some girls would do the same thing for us and they smelled WAY better. It lasted for a couple years and then we all got girl friends.

Why the hell would it be "wrong"? That sounds like a totally immature thing to say. "Right" and "wrong" are subjective anyway.

Anyone who calls you gay or lesbian for having occassional same-sex experiences doesn't know what they are talking about. A gay man is primarily interested in men, the way a straight man is primarily interested in women. Key word here: Primarily. You are only bisexual if you feel equal interest in both sexes. EQUAL interest. In order to be bisexual or gay/lesbian, you would need to feel romantically as well as sexually interested in the same sex.

Some people use the word "bi-curious" for people who are curious about the same sex, but that's as useless a word as "flexitarian."

A gay man can fool around with a woman and still be gay. You can be straight and fool around with a dude and still be straight. It's about who your primary interest is for sex and romantic involvement. That's the best way I can explain it you.

To answer your other question, I have kissed another girl, recieved oral from her, etc. And I am straight, thank-you.

I am straight but have been curious as to what it would be like to be with another woman sexually.Apart from the normal experimenting at school(you show me yours,i'll show you mine)i've only been with males in my 20yrs of sexual activity.

For some it is fun and for some it is wrong.

Me? - just leaves me utterly uninterested.

If he's bi do I care? Nope. Nothing to do with me.

for me i would consider myself to be straight but i would also call myself "bi-curious"
i would love to know the feeling of being with another woman just to experience it.

I wouldnt consider it bi. I have a fantasy I sometimes drift in to which includes experimenting and trying to suck another guy.

Women really love to give head, it must be fun to do. Im not bi, gay, or bi-curious. Im just curious what its like to suck one. I have never got5 up the guts to try though so I guess it will remain a fantasy

[QUOTE=Shyguy151;171588]How many people have had a same sex experience but do not consider themselves gay or bi? Is it so wrong to fool around with a member of the same sex just for fun? If your both into it just because it feels good and it only happens once in a blue moon, is that wrong? This can go for m or f, married or single. Can you be labeled as being gay or bi just for having fun sex?[/QUOTE]

Sorry to tell you, yes you're Bi. Not saying it's a bad thing, just being honest unlike the other replies I seen you receive. If you want a penis in your mouth or butt and you're a male, but still enjoy women - YOU ARE BI-SEXUAL There's no oh once in a while doesn't mean anything. Yes it does... PERIOD

If that bothers you - TO BAD So you're BI - There's many other things in life that matter more than your sexual orientation. Live with it, embrace it, and quit worrying about what others think and say!