Ask nicely. Worst he can reasonably do is say "no."

shave it for him! tell him you know a trick to make it look bigger! lol but all honesty! its fair! talk to him! but make it fun! ;)

I guess it really depends on the guy and how he will react. As a guy, if she would of asked me to shave, trim, or wax, I would do it especially if she is willing to go down on me more. Would be no problem. As it is, I started to trim and then shave just because I knew I preferred her with trimmed pubic hair. So I trimmed mine also and then started to experiment with shaving. Enjoyed going that way so much that I have kept it up and now keep myself mostly bare with just a little bit of pubic hair. She started to shave more after trimming it and now she goes mostly bare also. So it was nice to both do this for ourselves and each other. I like the idea of you offering to shave it for him or at least start by trimming it. I love being able to shave her when she lets me do that.

I have found many benifits to being cleanly shaven. My penis looks bigger I really well endowed but its more noticeable. I can also feel the sensations on my scrotum so that is absolutely wonderful. I also believe in returning the favor. I love admiring a womans beautiful vulva and they are much easier to admire and lick if shaven. Its also easier of a man to clean up after sex or a day at the gym if he is shaven.

Not every man will do things the same. Meaning he may not want to shave at all. However, your guy would be a fool not to shave to get some Monica Lewinsky. Speaking on a more personal level some men have sensitive skin so instead of shaving (razor blade) they have to trim (hair clippers w/guard) things as close to the skin as possible. Or suffer the hurt from ingrown hairs.

He's your man. You shouldn't be nervous about asking him to groom his "crotch region" so you can pleasure him better. But the way you communicate your desire could send a negative message. Use that sexy voice and ask him when you are about to get things going. If he agrees, maybe you can watch him all the while playing with yourself. What man can resist that?

Another option is to get him drunk, if he drinks. And when he is sleep trim it down. I am not suggesting you use a razor, but hair clippers with a guard. A razor is to dangerous for a woman to wield around any penis. Then wake him up with some head! He'll thank you.

Hope you get that solved.

It's a fair request. I stay trimmed for my wife and she returns the favor.

dont see nothing wrong with it i do it just looks cleaner

[QUOTE=JackCremation;249088]Another option is to get him drunk, if he drinks. And when he is sleep trim it down. I am not suggesting you use a razor, but hair clippers with a guard. A razor is to dangerous for a woman to wield around any penis. Then wake him up with some head! He'll thank you.
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Humor, right?

[QUOTE=Browser;249137]Humor, right?[/QUOTE]

Personally, I wouldn't mind if a female used a pair of hair clipper w/guard to trim me down. It is how I groom myself so a woman can concentrate on her task unhindered.

Let me state it this way, "it is impossible to hurt myself while grooming if and only if the blade of the clippers is shielded from skin via a guard". Be that as it may, I did intend on it being faintly humorous, but I was indeed serious about the option presented. However, if my instructions are not followed i.e. the use of a guard, this should not be attempted by any person even men. :p

I was more taking umbrage at the idea of getting your SO drunk and making changes to his body.

You can ask but really, "hair in my mouth?" is that all it takes to put you off???

I agree w Browser - that would be grounds for dumpig her ass.

[QUOTE=Browser;249410]I was more taking umbrage at the idea of getting your SO drunk and making changes to his body.[/QUOTE]

What? No liquor? I made the assumption the guy drinks. (That is a bad assumption as I do not drink myself.) However, if true and he got shit faced the suggestion wouldn't be so offensive. If not, the suggestion wouldn't be a feasible.

Be that as it may, I do see your point. I was trying to hint at trimming him during the most opportune time. A time when she would encounter the least amount of or no resistance. Assuming he doesn't want his pubic area groomed and wants it to resemble a Chia Pet forever.

I only want to attempt to make a few more points about this hair trimming. I would like to make it known that I love some Monica Lewinsky. Thus, my support for trimming is somewhat biased towards how she feels. With that said, biased or not this one is a no brainer.

1) It's hair and it will grow back
2) If you are in a relationship there will be compromising. Plus, this is a win-win situation for the guy. You cut it off and don't like it. Get some good Bobby in the Lobby for at least a few weeks as it grows back.
3) I didn't mean for her Aquarius to get the guy waisted. That one lacked the proper articulation of my thoughts. Sorry if I offended anyone by that suggestion.
4) Any guy who breaks up with a female because she trimmed his pubes while was sleep he is a moron. WTF? She wanted to give you a Blow J you and you broke up with her.
5) IT IS ONLY HAIR IT WILL GROW BACK!

Doesn't matter though. The bottom line is they will or will not work it out. I just thought I would share how I felt. I hope everyone enjoys their Christmas or holiday if that is what you prefer to call it.

Nuff said.

Ever hear of ingrown hairs? They happen to some people. This is why they do not shave hair that will curl. Pubic hairs curl. On some people they curl back around and go back ito the skin if they are trimmd too cloely or are shaved.

Ingrown hairs hurt. Ingrown hairs are hideous - and make it look like you have some horrible disase because the entire area becomes inflamed and red and covered in raised irritated bumps that if scratched can become infected.

You cannot even wear clothes much less want someone giving you fellatio or even fucking. "Yeah, I'll get back to you on that - in about two weeks maybe three. Thanks, babe. Love you too."

You can certainly ask, but if he says no, leave the man be.

If she's willing to dump you bcause you aren't "clean-shaven" then she's not the girl for you.

You probably should read my first post. The gist of your post was ingrown hairs. I mentioned that as a possible reason he might be against being clean shaved. Trust me I know all too well the problems/pain of ingrown hairs as I get them if certain protocol is not followed. This is the reason I don't use face razors blades to shave anywhere on my body. The cut is too close and I get ingrown hairs.

As I said in my first post, the way around this is to use hair clippers with a guard. The guard will insure the cut doesn't make you bald and the clippers can be adjusted for the length you'd like the hair. Although my pubic area is not bald it is groomed nicely and low enough so hairs will not be a factor. When my girl is doin her thing there are no hair removal from mouth breaks and I DON'T get ingrown hairs anymore.

Trust me on the hair clippers with guard thing it works.

By why bother - really!

Take the man as he comes and be done with worrying over things like this - it really isn't worth it. Death and taxes, yes; body hair, no.

It is much more important that he's a great guy and that she's a great girl.

I get them too.

Everything you said is true and I agree. But if she has asking for advice there must be a reason she'd like him trimmed. Regardless of what we think she is the one who'd like to see him trimmed if possible.

This conversation can go on forever because people feel strongly about, well, how they feel. You and I both see where the others thought emanate, but we both have our own reasons for why or why not.

I am simply stating, if ingrown hairs is the problem my solution works. If they are not the problem what is the deal with shaving hair that will grow back. No person is going to feel happy about doing something they are against. Thus, a compromise is made. They both can get what they want.

The gist is - she can ask but she has to accept his decision because it is his decisin to make.

You should ask your guy and explain why. Personally I don't like the idea of shaving the pubic area. The idea of scratchiness and itchiness and ingrown hairs disgusts me much more than the thought of a hair in my mouth. I always thought guys shaved "down there" to try to make their equipment look larger. :p

My husband shaves. I love no hair in your mouth and he says it makes sex better for him. I shave as well.

I have tried shaving several times, but i just cant get past the itch and Ohhhhh does it itch and it doesnt matter if I continually shave it, it still itches. When I first did it, it felt amazing and to be honest I loved the look of smooth balls and my cock hanging there, Quite the turn on! But alas, it stinkin itches too much!

I'm into it and I like ladies that are into it as well.

Foreplay_first get some powder...Use Bonds, you get a very nice feeling from it as a bonus....

Cheers

LOL sorry much too much to be put off my stride by hair in the mouth! HAH! Sorry, dude but you're not getting away that easily! I'll take him however he comes.

[QUOTE=Aquarius;249578]Yeah it's just not the greatest feeling to get a hair in the mouth when giving a guy a blow job. Plus licking and sucking his balls when they're covered in hair isn't much fun either. I was just wondering if I would be out of place asking him to trim or something. I appreciate everyone's input. I totally understand the itchiness of shaving and ingrown hairs. But I do a full wax because I feel cleaner and sexier and the guy likes it.[/QUOTE]

I've never let an odd hair wreck my enjoyment of giving head. I don't have any issues with licking or sucking hairy balls either. None of my partners have ever shaved or even trimmed and I've certainly never expected it of them. I love my men just as they are.

Doesn't hurt to ask. After I shaved down under I asked my wife to. Don't be supprised if he says no though. My wife refused but it's no big deal. Life goes on.

I keep mine short so it doesnt get caught or stink too much, i think it looks better with it being short from using a electric shaver, i have had females ask me how i keep mine and have liked it being short on a guy.
Yeah i can understand from other posts that it does hurt a little when your hard or just been hard from sex or playing, thats why you dont keep it so short that it pricky in that regard

it's fair to ask but not to expect him, just as it would be fair for him to ask you to let it grow natural but not expect you too

I kept myself clean down there because my girlfriend hated getting hair in her mouth Now we are married. She no go down no more, so I just stopped shaving that area.

even when you are married there are signs to show that something is wrong or she has made decisions without you knowing. If she was regularly going down as you speak and now she does not I believe you should talk to your wife, keep the sexual arousal going the chemistry. If she decides that giving bj's does not please her anymore try to compromise what else will she be able to do for both of ya'll to feel comfortable during sex. Communication is the key! She may be going through emotions or just trying to adjust to marriage. Any reason can be for this unfortunate event. I would say go ahead make sure you trim just in case she does change her mind don't give up so easily. Congrats though...

[QUOTE=sexgoddess1;273694]even when you are married there are signs to show that something is wrong or she has made decisions without you knowing. If she was regularly going down as you speak and now she does not I believe you should talk to your wife, keep the sexual arousal going the chemistry. If she decides that giving bj's does not please her anymore try to compromise what else will she be able to do for both of ya'll to feel comfortable during sex. Communication is the key! She may be going through emotions or just trying to adjust to marriage. Any reason can be for this unfortunate event. I would say go ahead make sure you trim just in case she does change her mind don't give up so easily. Congrats though...[/QUOTE]

for the comment above...

Bottom line - if she's not doing fellatio, then he should NOT have to shave - since he was only doing it 'for her comfort' anyway.