i am obnoxiously attracted to my fiance, like it is a rare occasion that i dont want to have sex with him. he tells me its bad and i need to get it checked out. apparently being turned on "all the time" isnt healthy or something. can anyone help me out?
Tue, 06/10/2008 - 09:05
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is it bad that i always want him?
Dump his ass then. Sounds like a jerk. What you should do, is try to go as long as possible without it. Dont even touch him, and see what he does. If he complains just tell him too bad he cant have it both ways.
[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I don’t see any problem with it at all. I can see how you and your fiancé not having matching libidos could be a little irritating, but there is nothing wrong with you. I think it is so stupid that when a man has a high libido, no one sees a problem with it. But when a woman has a high libido, even her fiancé says she has a “problem”. I will say it again THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I just thought of something. He might want to get check out for having a hypo-active sex drive. [/SIZE][/FONT]
[QUOTE=Mr. Saint;216942][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I just thought of something. He might want to get check out for having a hypo-active sex drive. [/SIZE][/FONT][/QUOTE]
what do you mean hypo-active sex drive?
Stef,
I cannot imagine a woman using that handle. Hypo- is the obverse prefix from hyper-.
I think he is the one that needs to have something checked out.
You are fine. I mean my previous girlfriend...well I would go over to her house and instantly wanted her.
And it was only her, just thinking about her made me ridiculously hard!
[QUOTE=Ducy;216984]You are fine. I mean my previous girlfriend...well I would go over to her house and instantly wanted her.
And it was only her, just thinking about her made me ridiculously hard![/QUOTE]
see thats how it is for me with my fiance. well minus the hard part lol. but it just seems to bother him so bad that just the thought of him turns me on
Only thing I can think of is if hes a little alarmed by your behavior, IF you are coming across as obsessive and needy (needy in the sense that you need him, and if he rejects you in any way you will like go ape****). I know how it feels to be so hyped and stupid for someone, but maybe think if you are going overboard, trying to show him too much? Just a thought.
If anything i think he should probably appericiate that you are so crazy for him, he could have it alot worse, say if he had a fiance that has practicully or actually no labido.
Your fiance sounds like an idiot....I love it when my girlfriend is into me and wanting me. That is a good thing.
the only way i could see this as bad is if you are a nymphomaniac other than that i can't see why that would be bad
im not even that bad about it. ive cut down to wanting it maybe 3 or 4 times a week if that. he has been mean about it lately. like he will turn me on and get me all kinds of in the mood. than decide he doesnt want to go all the way. it annoys me so bad
if there is somethething rong with you then there is something rong with a lot of people out there.