I am in a new relationship and although we are taking a step back physically she still wants to do dry humping. The problem is that we are still doing some things, and although i'm comfortable doing stuff to her, I'm not 100% when i'm receiving. The problem is that she is into dry humping (which i'm new to) and as we get into it I freak out a little and giggle. This completely ruins the mood and kills things. Do you have any suggestions to keep me from freaking out while doing this? It is either that I run out of breath (has happened before) but I think it is a nervous tick on my part. I am just a person who gets nervous easily as a lot of this is newer to me. Please help.
SoS
Talk to yourself and determine why you are so nervous. In its place, nervousness can be OK, yet I have a distant cousin who shakes and quivers constantly from being nervous. Certainly this cannot be good for your physical or mental health.
It is my guess that much of why people are nervous stems from a lack of confidence and having a critical self esteem issue. Don't be so hard on yourself. Think things through. Consider the alternatives. If things go wrong, laugh them off, pick up the pieces and go on.
The laughter is a sign of nervousness. You can also be laughing if she tickles you. Either way, I think you need to man-up and do some self evaluation.
Despite the ticklish issue (and i am sigh...) I am just trying to figure out a way around this issue of me being nervous about it. Any tips to combat it?