My guy keeps asking me to put on some lingerie. Typically we have some pretty hot sessions of taking each other's clothes off. Not sure how to introduce the lingerie without feeling awkward or interrupting the momentum. I did buy some, now what?
Fri, 05/22/2009 - 06:53
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introducing lingerie
> Not sure how to introduce the lingerie without feeling awkward or interrupting the momentum. I did buy some, now what?
Put the garment on and then let the momentum begin!
Just go get ready and appear seductively in the doorway where he is. If there is a back light or dim nightlight in the room, so much the better. No need to tell him what you are about to do. Later when he sees you.....
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From my male point of view...lingerie is not meant to be worn in bed. Not saying it can't be used in bed or during sex anywhere except bed, but lingerie is about visual and tactile stimulation. You don't say what piece(s) you bought. Doc is on the right track, let him get a good look at you, but I would suggest that you give him a good long time -an hour, an afternoon/evening, all day- to observe you walking around the house, serving him a drink, going up and down stairs, cooking, doing any and everything in lingerie. Try to draw out the teasing as long as possible before getting down to sex. This will increase the sexual tension. The more tension that builds up before sex the better it feels when the tension is relieved.
Put it on and give him a fashion show as long as it is on. When it is off, do whatever seems natural.