Hey i have been looking at this site for a while and i decided to post my delimma(well not really) Should I let my girlfriend try to have sex with a black guy? she said she wants to find out about the myth and see if it is true or not. i think i can go either way. I would like to see it. Should i tape? be in the room or just hear her side of it?
Sun, 01/01/2006 - 23:07
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Interracial.
> Should I let my girlfriend try to have sex with a(nother)...guy?
What right do you have to govern your girlfriend's behavior or actions? She is her own person as are you.
> she said she wants to find out about the myth and see if it is true or not.
"Male Myth?" What is this of which you speak??
If the two of you are curious about the proverbial size of the male endowment then look at the various charts on the matter.
> I would like to see it. Should i tape? be in the room or just hear her side of it?
It seems to me as if all this is in the hands of the participants, not the cameraman or audience member.
wow! you are going to let your girlfriend have sex with another guy!!!!!!!!!
if my girlfriend even asked i would leave her on the spot
why does she have to have sex with the guy to find out how big his dick is?? tell her to look at some pictures on the internet or something!!
it sounds like when she says 'I want to find out how big his dick is', she actually means 'I would really like to sleep with a black guy'. ok thats her fantasy, you just have to decide if you are the kind of person who can have an open relationship.
from your post it sounds like you're quite curious about it yourself... why not suggest a threesome, that way you can be involved too?!
i do think you should think about your situation very carefully before making any decisions. jealousy is a very powerful emotion and if you're not careful you could end up losing what you have together. it sounds like you two are very open about your sexual desires etc. so talk to her about it.. you may decide to just watch some black porn together and fantasize or something, or you may decide to do more, but it should be a decision you are both comfortable with and that you make together!!
p.s. just for the record, my current partner is nigerian and I can tell you he is MASSIVE!! I held off sleeping with him for quite some time at the start of the relationship because I didn't think I would be able to accomodate him!! I can't speak for all black guys, but when I saw his I knew how the reputation had come about!!!!!