Hi all,
My g/f has a lot of trouble having G-Spot orgasms and has only had a handful in her life, all via masturbating. I've previously found a spot about 1 or 2 inches inside, again on the inside wall, roughly behind where the clitoris is. This spot has been in slightly different places on different times but roughly in the same area. It has a slightly rougher feel than the rest of her vagina but otherwise it feels the same as the rest of her vagina (in terms of how soft it feels etc). Hitting this spot always gets a good reaction and i've always assumed this was her G-Spot. She agrees with me and we've experimented around quite a bit, trying to find what spots work best for her etc, and how to help her orgasm internally easier.
Now here's an interesting question. Whilst fingering my g/f a few weeks ago, I found this interesting spot, a full finger's length inside her and roughly on the inside wall (i.e. the wall facing outwards to her belly). It was a hard, protruding knob - much harder than the surrounding area - and roughly the size of the tip of the little finger. This was a much more 'distinguishable' spot than any other, and i'd never found it before. She didn't really get much out of me playing around with it but it did make her feel like she had to pee. I tried a few different things - stimulating this spot directly, moving my fingers up and down the sides of it and in the area just around it, a few other things. Some things felt good; others, again, just made her need to pee.
I've heard that, for a lot of women, initial stimulation of the G-Spot makes them want to pee, but that working through that gently leads to it feeling really good. My question is - has anyone come across something like this before? What are we dealing with here? :)
If she has had any at all, she is in a very small minority. Fewer than ten percent of all women will ever reach orgasm through G-Spot stimulation. There is even serious question whether or not the G-Spot exists.
You were touching her cervix. This is the entrance to the uterus. Do a search for female genitalia and learn what all is down there. Most women do not like that kind of probong around there and this can be quite uncomfortable. For many women, when sexually aroused (See Chick Chat Female Sexual Response) the elongation of the vagina puts the cervis out of comfortable reach.
Yes, most of us have come across this before. That does not mean we like amateurs rooting around looking. Yes, seeking G-Spot stimulation often leads to many futile trips to the loo. You are rubbing the bottom side of the urethra and this makes us feel like we have to pee.
Cool, thanks for the info :)
I know what you mean about G-Spot orgasms - my girlfriend's told me about some of her female friends who have NEVER had an orgasm of any kind. And these are women why really enjoy sex, and have had many partners, both male and female.