Hi, I am infatuated with the idea of inserting objects, but my wife isn't nearly as eager as I am. Naturally we have a very healthy relationship and I would never make her do something she wasn't excited about or interested in doing.
My question is, are they any couples that play with inserting objects, and if so what got you interested in it? I would like to be able to give my wife real examples of people and their experiences, if they exist...otherwise this one may be relegated to my fantasy world forever!!!
Please Help!
speaking as a wife, my husband sometimes likes to insert foreign objects during oral sex too, i don't mind. it's really no different than using dildos. just don't use anything that could hurt or cause other problems (nothing containing sugar!!) based on conversations with my friends i don't think it's all that uncommon. btw my favorite was an ice cube. :D
I guess I should proof read better:rolleyes: , to clarify the question was in regards to inserting objects into the vagina...
Of course there are! Me and my girl do it all the time, espcially when I am eating her out I will let her insert whatever she wants into herself.
And of course there are a million other possibilities, but yes it's very common. I just wanted to please my girl, and knowing it takes me a long time to get in the mood, I will give her whatever she wants, to give her the time of her life. This is what got me into it, just wanting her to be happy... And more-so when we are done wish for bed like no other because she is so exausted... I love that feeling.
That is cool that she wanted to do it... With only the slightest of exceptions, I am willing to do whatever my wife will do that she enjoys. Only problem is...she doesn't think she will enjoy it and doesn't really want to do it.
Hence my dilema, What can I tell her that will put her at ease with the notion of inserting things inside her?
What sort of things does your wife enjoy having inserted inside her?
Look around your home for kitchen objects!!!
Well, you could always just ask her if she is willing to try it, just to see if she'll like it. Most likely, she is just being shy. Reassuring her that it would really turn you on, you think it would be really hot and if she didn't like it, you will stop will probably help some.
You should see some of the stuff removed from all bodily orifices on a Saturday night at a big hospital emergency room! From that experience, I would say that anything lying around has been tried.
ice cubes.... my wife loves ice cubes! I'm not really all that familiar with what she uses, because generally when we're together the only thing inserted into her is me. But when she's alone...... I don't know what all is possible.
i experimented with a hairbrush handle interesting experience.......
I realy want to try this with my girlfriend and have for sometime. but she thinks that eveything that isnt straight from the porn store is dirty and gunna give her some kind of infection. is there anything i can do or say that might change her mind? and whats some other good ideas?
Thanks
Using ice or an ice lolly would be a great way to start because it feels amazing, isn't as overtly phallic as a big dildo, and the whole point is that she can sit on your face while you lap it up, until hey, presto! it's all gone! Apparently it feel really good for the guy too, when he goes insde- a completely different sensation. Apparently an alkaseltzer straight after is a great sensation too, but I've never done it. Then she may be open to more things at a later date...chocolate bars, cucumbers, dildos...
I have to admit that in frantic moments when I've been desperately searching for things to 'fill my need' around the house it's been pretty hard. A lot of things that may SEEM to be a good idea actually are too wide at the top or have sticky-ot bits that look too threatening for my precious bits!
NB never use an open bottle (apparently- something about causing a vacuum(?)) and it seems that sugary things (perhaps like the ice lolly?) can cause bacterial growth= yeast infections.
You might need to make big compromises on this one!
all potential objects will need to be very very clean. look around the house, you should be able to find some insertable objects. northernpixie is right though. sometimes the object isn't as ideal once you actually try to use it. our rule is nothing bigger than his member, any bigger and it probably won't work.
talk to her about it, let her know how much it'd turn you on and that you would never use anything that could cause harm of any kind. seriously though, try the ice if she's agreeable. it's clean, nothing left over once you're done and it feels soooo good. we've also filled a condom with water, froze it, peeled condom off and had an ice dildo - lots of fun! only drawback was that it was too cold for him to hold onto for long. if talking to her doesn't work you could let her read this thread. good luck! :D
Wow, thats awesome, I posted this almost a year ago now! Thanks for all the tips!
[quote=Brandye;189041]You should see some of the stuff removed from all bodily orifices on a Saturday night at a big hospital emergency room! From that experience, I would say that anything lying around has been tried.[/quote]
Yeap...so much fun removing household items! Especially door knobs, snicker bars and hot dogs! Oh, cannot forget the coat hanger in the rump! LOL! I found if there is an orifice someone will find something to fill it with!
[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]On that note I just want to say if you are going to do anal insertion, make sure the object has a wide base of is long enough not to get “lost”. Also if you are concerned about it being sanitary, you can put a rubber on phallic like objects. [/SIZE][/FONT]
Hmm... what shouldn't go in there? I think it would be fun to put a tootsie pop into her =P
She is always teasing me by sucking on them in promiscuous ways.. It would be fun to turn the tables on her!
If it doesn't have a retrieval cord or a flared base, do not put it in her bum. The anus is shaped differently than the vagina and things will travel upwards there. You can put anything in the vagina without worrying about "losing" them, but some things can cause infections for some women, so be careful and always ask first.
So, could a blow pop or any kind of lolly pop cause an infection?
It could. Usually sugar in the vaginal area is a bad idea as it can cause yeast infections. However, there are people who do things like you are thinking of doing with little to no harm done. I couldn't do it myself, as I would be guaranteed a yeast infection.
Yea, I would rather not take any risk of hurting her, so I guess I will have to find somthing else, haha.
You could always try flavored lubes, if you were so inclined to add extra sweetness to her natural flavor.
Ok, I got an idea, how about a sugar free blow pop? Do they have those?
[QUOTE=dixie chick;188958] btw my favorite was an ice cube. :D[/QUOTE]
Yes, that's really nice :D
[QUOTE=CleverName;217086]Ok, I got an idea, how about a sugar free blow pop? Do they have those?[/QUOTE]
Yes, they do make sugar free candy, but I really would still avoid using any sort of candy in that area. Mints are supposed to be okay, but candies are a no no - generally speaking.
What would one clean somthing they wanted to insert with? Soap and water?
That depends on what you are inserting.
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Well, it does!
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