--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics

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This post is a partial Index of Sex Ed. informational essays. If you have questions about love, romance and the how-tos of sex, and are uncertain where to find information or do not wish to search each of the Forums, here are the links--all in one place.

Important posts are called "Sticky posts" because they never move from the top section of a particular Forum where the information is kept readily at hand.

There are many informational Sticky post articles that have been written by Brandye, Dancingdoc2, and others, so that people can obtain answers to the most asked questions and concerns without having to ask by writing yet another in a long string of recurring posts that have been asked and answered many times over. In addition, two search engines are accessible from the blue Nav. bar. Various articles are also often referenced by members of the community answering a question posted in a thread.

The following links are a listing of relevant Sex Ed. articles by Dancingdoc2, EvilEvilKitten, and Brandye, and dlb, in no particular order:


OF CONCERN TO BOYS/MEN


For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)

PART 2--"Growing" pains / For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)

ERECTION problems
Top Line: Erections come and erections go. A penis seemingly has a mind of its own.
There are generally three concerns fellas have regarding erections:

Boys and Masturbation / Got questions?

Masturbating Survey: About boys / About men

Semen: nutrient facts & taste

Dancing 101--About school dances, proms, etc. Learning to Slow Dance


OF CONCERN TO GIRLS/WOMEN


For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
Includes information on learning how to masturbate.

The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva


SUGGESTIONS FOR DATING



DATING--Rules: how to and how not to

"Dating" and the Internet

DATING--The Art and Science of Asking and Doing, contributed by Dancingdoc2, Sera300, and EvilEvilKitten

Exclusivity vs. Dating Around, including replies by EEK and others

How long do I wait to tell someone I LOVE YOU?


A COUPLES GUIDE TO MAKING OUT
The Beginning-


FOREPLAY: The Prequel and Sequel

My boyfriend doesn't turn me on enough, help?
The four stages of arousal defined

Making Out--Knowing How Far To Go

KISSING & CARESSING--a young person's guide to EXPLORATION
(Major revision added 12/28/07 to Part Two: "Kissing-beyond the basics--")


Beyond Beginning-

Shyness / Confidence / First time issues

Pleasing her orally for the first time

This article includes additional insight and information by Brandye, EvilEvilKitten, and Dancingdoc2:
The First Steps toward Real Intimacy

Chapter One in a series (Scroll down to read each chapter along with readers' comments):
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping

Chapter Two:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of G-spot massage

Chapter Three:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Making Out, FIRST
This chapter has a section on "Implied Consent" and "Boundaries" regarding making out and how far to go.
NOTE: Frequently, and depending upon the nature of a poster's question, Doc recommends the person read Chapter Three, first, and Chapter One, second--then the others in turn.

Chapter Four:
MORE: From bungling student to graduating Lover Cum Laude

Chapter Five (also has its own separate link):
HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:

Next: If you are new & have no experience (Pt. 2 of HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED!:
If you are a guy who happens to be shy or uncertain about making the first move, know that this is OK. My suggestion is:
(Part 2 of Chapter 5)

For Men and Women Only- Breasts and Play

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

What to do when the Clitoris becomes too sensitive, by Dancingdoc2, Brandye, and, others

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

Male / Female Sexual Behavior--If I like certain things does this mean I'm Gay?


Advanced Information-

The KIVIN Method of performing Cunnilingus, answered by Brandye, EEK, and Dancingdoc2
This includes an excellent video tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of integrating anal stimulation and oral stimulation, bringing this exercise to a new level! (Revised video links: 10/05/09)


Please look at the top section of every Forum for all of the Sticky posts. You just never know which article might have the information you are looking for. Often a bit of time spent on a search will provide an answer in a fraction of the time it takes to write a post and wait for others around the world to reply.

A word or phrase search of all of the posts on all the Forums can also yield valuable information in a fraction of the time it takes to write what is often yet another "me too" post that has been asked and answered many times before. Please spend a few minutes before authoring a post to look through the many threads for the answer to your question or concern. There are two search engines accessible from the blue nav. bar. Many in the community love to contribute by replying to posts, yet it is very exasperating to see the same questions pop up daily or at least frequently, each expecting an original and sometimes time consuming reply.

Additional Articles Continued on Page 2, below:

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The following links are (additional) listings of relevant Sex Ed. articles by Dancingdoc2, EvilEvilKitten, and Brandye, in no particular order, that software limitations on page length do not permit being included in Part 1.


SEX e.g. INTERCOURSE


Benefits of Masturbating for Boys and for Girls

Guys on the Edge!

I'm Ready for SEX! (or am I?) I really want to do it.

I (we) need help getting started... & inspired by sprtskhne33

What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?
PART 2--Another view of the same question.
A Boy's Concern For Making the First Time Successful and Fulfilling

What is a "Safe Word"? Choosing & Using...

Getting guys to improve in bed without damaging ego...


SHACKING UP


I think we are ready to live together!!
We frequently hear about people living together who later find that one, the other, or both are not happy living together. Similarly, we frequently read a post in which a couple is contemplating moving in together and looking for a suitable residence. Here is an initial Check List.


FAMILY MATTERS


Fifty (50) years and counting--yeses

Confrontations-- About Fighting, Arguing & Negotiating
How to give your partner the most of what s/he wants without giving up the core of what you want.
Or--making life better and more peaceful.

Catching my sister--should I tell?

Trust, Jealousy, Self Confidence & Self Esteem

Acquiring Self Confidence

How long do I have to wait before I become an adult?

Rape! Suggestions for dealing with the aftermath

COMMAND & CONTROL or Relationship Bullying
(Coming Soon!)


These link to EvilEvilKitten's papers on:


The Program
Your guide to wild rampant skin-on-skin full-body-contact sex.

How to Meet Men

Dating! But what if she is already dating someone? Should I or should I not (ask her out)?

How to communicate with a woman thread Written by Brandye and EvilEvilKitten and inspired by "changinmyself".


The Four Hotspots

Body Worship How-To by EEK

The Three Systems of Love

Dealing with Adultery

Female Slowness to Orgasm

Sex Adiction

Warning Signs
It is an unfortunate fact that the majority of women have suffered some kind of abuse at the hands of men at one time or another. While it is true that one person cannot know everything about another person, there are some things you can guess at with a fair degree of accuracy. Please click on the link to learn more.

Snooping

"Evil Evil Thoughts..."
What follows are a few of the typical questions and concerns we receive from members in which EvilEvilKitten {EEK) has chosen to respond. If you would like short answers with wit, wisdom, and common sense, {EEKisms) to some common concerns, check this out.
Updated: 8/16/11


THE FOLLOWING ARE LINKS TO EXCELLENT ARTICLES BY BRANDYE, our "Resident Doctor":



About Brandye

Breast size and Bra size not always the same

Girls, and the extraction of semen

Am I Ready For Sex?

Birth Control Failure Rates

Caution: Pill - Take only as directed

Which pill? Your choice!
In the Birth Control Forum is the Sticky "Caution: Take Only as Directed' (see link, above) which should be read by any woman new to "the pill." This is a companion piece to that addressing the woman's role in choosing which pill

Why Women's Orgasms?

Female Sexual Response

Too Sensitive: Suggestions for touching and pleasuring the Clitoris--Answered by Brandye and Dancingdoc2
Guys! Yes, the clitoris is like the Penis albeit in miniature and without a Urethra, yet it must be handled much differently when pleasuring a woman. All those sensitive nerve endings are highly concentrated unlike they are in the Glans. Here is a quick "user's guide".


What We Know: G-Spot and Ejaculation

Never Too Late

Sex and Pregnancy

Pregnancy Tests

Semen

LUBRICANT INFO

Viagra, Cialis, Levitra

Contraceptives

Advice on Birth Control Options

Spermicides - A Review

Dildos and the Human Anus

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Vaginal Wetness, Squirting, and their sources

The Prostate


These are but a few of the Doctor's essays. Others, not indexed in this list provide additional sage advise for health related matters. You will find these scattered among the Forums.


dlb--longtime forum participant has contributed the following:

BDSM 101- Bondage,Discipline, Sadism and Masochism