The transitions take practice. The only determination to switch positions would be discomfort or getting tired/bored. (For instance male superior can sometimes make my hips hurt so I switch up with my girlfriend.) You could even just say hey lets try a bunch of positions. Me and mine went through 8 positions just to try them all :p

One fun one...get into a position where your on top, and can thrust comfortably, then have your girlfriend wrap her left arm and leg (or right) around the outside of your arms. The oppostie side stays on the inside. Then in the middle of having sex, she can just rotate towards her outside arm and leg, and viola. Your now on the bottom, and can easily roll back doing the same thing (outside arm and leg). You can continue to roll around all night switching between top and bottom.

Alot of people on this board have advocated for a pillow under her bum to help tilt her hips up. This way when you thrust, it helps you hit her g-spot. For deep penetration. Doggy style will help you reach the fornix, and so could her legs up near her ears (although it can be hard if she isnt flexible)

Girl on top can be one of the easiest ways to grind her clit agains your hips.

[QUOTE=bluetide76;208836]I have been rather happy with my learning about sex and improving, but I have sorta come to a point where I am stuck.

[COLOR="Navy">It is always nice to learn that the site and members of the community have proven helpful. Have you been reading any books in addition?[/COLOR]

I was wondering if I could get some tips/advice from the experienced about angles.

[COLOR="Navy">But of course. Conniving and creativity and innovation are the tools of many a good lover.[/COLOR]

I know it varies with different women, but I was wondering what are some positions or ways of setting up good angles for better stimulation.

[COLOR="Navy">As for clitoral stimulation, three good ones are:

1. The Woman Superior and its variations
2. The "X"
3. The "Y"
These two vary only in the position of the couples legs. The man and woman recline on their sides facing each other.

These are great positions because they place her "pieces-part" in constant contact with his body in ways that permit continuous and ongoing contact in order to build arousal to the brink of an orgasm.[/COLOR]

My g/f is more of the clitoral type, she likes the fullness feeling and gspot stimulation, but doesnt orgasm very easily from intercourse.

[COLOR="Navy">My reply time and again has been to recommend that the guy reach around and stimulate his partner's clitoris by hand while stroking/thrusting away. When you think about how bodies mesh, and what is required to build arousal, it takes constant friction. If her clitoris is not in contact with something of his to rub against--nothing much is going to happen for her. So, whenever possible when using one of these positions, finger her clitoris and labia and surrounding area ALSO.[/COLOR]

In fact it takes a lot of work and usually she rubs her clit or grinds it on me while we have intercourse.

[COLOR="Navy">I see you understand the situation. Good going. You've solved this on your own![/COLOR]

The other question I have is about transitions. Not the grammar type, but the transition between positions. That seems to be the only confusing and sort of nervous moment when we are having our sexy fun. We go through the foreplay, petting, ect and on to oral for each and eventually intercourse. How do I determine when one position has been too long or a good time to switch to something else improving the stimulation from the last?

[COLOR="Navy">It's a toss up between communicating verbally or non-verbally with each other, and, just being the leader and doing it whenever the mood or the muscle fatigue sets in. Similarly, if she wants to switch, she can make her wish known. There is no one right answer.[/COLOR]

So far we have usually stayed in the position we start with till we orgasm, but occasionally we have switched up say if her legs get tired from riding or just in the heat of the moment if she wants it from behind. Thanks ahead for any advice.[/QUOTE]

Once again, you two have found the solution or answer on your own. Keep up the good work.

Got more questions??

-doc

Buy the Kama Sutra and go through all the positions - It's a lot of fun.

Sex is fun when you can laugh at it.

Ephemra I bought a deck of playing cards with new positions for each. Neither of us could stop laughing.

Go to the site's home page and have a look at all the sexual positions available.

> doc you mentioned keeping constant stimulation for her clit, if that is the case should I do more of a tease and not full contact type, or rub right on the clit the way she likes it?

The way she likes it and also what works for her. Keep in mind that just as you have a method of stroking with rhythms, pressures, and hot spots that work for you, every one of us is the same, only with different methods that are unique to each person. The same holds true for each woman. So, learn from her what works and have her give you feedback on how she is responding to your caresses and for what she needs next.

Please read up on this, there are articles listed in the Index that speak directly to this question.

A bit of teasing once in a while may be OK if it fits well with her mood, however, I would not tease too much too often. The one other rule for teasing is: Do not do it when she is at the brink of an orgasm, trying to have it happen. If you ever want a mad frustrated person to deal with, just stop or pause what you are doing right then! It is important to understand that a woman's orgasm is problematical and has to be nurtured. If you pause or stop stimulating her when she is struggling to climax, most likely everything she's built up will be lost. You don't want this. Neither does she.

The reason I ask is after she orgasms once she gets more sensitive and prone to orgasming easier from stimulation there. I want her to feel good from intercourse, but not make her cum tons of times till she is sore either.

Two things:

T#1: The typical orgasmic woman can enjoy many more orgasms in a shorter period of time than a man. We may be limited to two or three additional orgasm with a break of 10 to 30 minutes in between any two. Most women can enjoy climax after climax after climax with only moments to a few minutes in between any two--if it is their desire to have more.

T#2: It is possible for women to become sore immediately prior to an orgasm. If this happens, then switch tactics and stimulate the clitoris indirectly by folding the labia over it and rubbing or massaging thru them, as one technique. Guys tend to become too sensitive to touch immediately after a climax. In both situations this hypersensitivity mimics pain. It is not real pain and it will go away after several minutes. The cause is a release of chemicals by the brain.

Help her to enjoy the first orgasm of the session as well as the last. In between you can have yours and any additional she may desire.

Allow her to be the judge of how many orgasms she wants or can tolerate, after all it is her body. Just be handy and available to assist.

If she has become hypersensitive, just wait it out and she'll be ready to go, again, shortly. If she has actually become sore from all the rubbing and caressing, then that is the time to call it quits for that session.

Warning for those of you who have Tempurpedic beds:

When transitioning, give it a good 30 seconds if you've been thrusting hard before you pick it up again. There will still be large indentations from where the two of you used to be until the bed reforms and it is very easy to have one of you slip back into a hole and who knows what will end up banging into what when that happens.:eek:

Being multi-orgasmic, we tend to change after each of my orgasms transitioning by returning to body worship while we shift around.

Moving from one position to the next doesn't mean you can't break sexual contact, either. They aren't always smooth and fluid. Really, the break is usually only like, what, 2 or 3 seconds? I don't even think about them.