Hi everyone, I'm very new to SexInfo101! There's this girl that I really like and I've been after for ages.
If I get a chance to be with her, it'll be soon and as neither of us are virgins, sex will probably be happening quite soon into our relationship.
I really want to impress her with our first night, to give out the best possible impression. I'm really asking advice from you experienced women out there... which positions do you find the most satisfying and sensual?
Any advice on motion or speed? What do you find a definate turn on from your first sex with a guy?
I'd really appreciate some response to this, hope someone can help advise! Thanks!
Steve
Thanks demon and I agree with the "sex talk" being part of flirting. It's a fun way to learn about each other's sexual desires.
Yeah I agree talking about it is important.
I always thought "sex talk" was always kind of a part of flirting.... you know?
Even if sometimes you aren't sure the person is serious or not, lol.
I also think you don't have to overimpress her. I mean it will be your first time together, so it will be special no matter what. And like iam said, all women are different in their likes and dislikes when it comes to sex and foreplay.
And like iam said, learning is part of the fun of the experience
good post iam
Well I strongly believe that if you don't feel comfortable with even talking about sex with your partner how can you possibly be ready to have sex. I'm not saying just out of nowhere ask her "So how do you like to be f***ed?" But bring up the topic of sex and get the conversation rolling that way. I'm not saying you should treat your discussions about sex as sort of a "pre game" and have the conversation right before you plan on having sex. I have always felt that communication is key even if you feel foolish speaking about that particular topic. How can you possibly know anything about what she enjoys in the bedroom if the two of you don't talk?
I'd find it difficult to ask her, before actually having sex, what she likes and doesn't. Wouldn't you be taken aback if your partner came out with "So which position is your favourite? You prefer being on top?".
In the past with women, there's never been pre-disscusions about sex, but whatever we prefer at the time was the way we had sex. Do you think that would be ok? Or do you strongly recommend talking about it before hand, no matter how foolish i may sound!?
Steve
Well every woman is different. Talk to her about what she likes regarding sex. If you can't talk openly about sex then you definately aren't ready to be having sex. My boyfriend and I talked at great length about sex before we actually did it. We talked about what we liked and things we didn't like. That helped a lot. Just don't give away all the secrets, finding out certain little things that drive your partner insane can be half the fun.