hi im not sure if this topic shud go in this section but im so scared. my boyf is going away in the summer and it's like a youth teen holiday abroad. he'll meet loads of guys n girls in their teens and im worried he's gona cheat on me. he said he's worried he will...and sed app he'd met some of the girls that r going and they're "rlly pretty" and fit or something. he is away 4 a month so i cnt contact him at all. he always sez he loves me and we've been quite far together already. we've been going out 4 about 5 months. we do have a rlly close relationship n he sez im beautiful and blah blah im "too good 4 him" but he's my first bf and im worried about the holiday away. i don't mean to be possessive, but im going away at the same time and well...i will be worried when im on holiday cuz ill be scared hes gona cheat on me. im so worried...he may just be winding me up tho..my friend sed he wudnt cheat on me cuz he "loves me" and stuff. i just feel so depressed and begin to wonder why i bother when he talks about how much he's looking 4ward to the holiday. i could scream i get so upset about it.
we were tlking bout it yday and he did appologise to me, but im so fed up. i dont rlly have many male friends so i duno wat wud happen if we split up...he knos loads of girls...mostly braindead tarts (sorry, it had to be said!) and grr...ok i'll stop. i just really need some advice.
im sorry if i sound paranoid. any advice wud b greatly appreciated.
uncreativename 
[QUOTE=Quote (oberon @ April 05 2005,14:21)]Well, if he cheats on you, you have two choices... forgive him and try to work it out... or dump him and move on. All you can do is figure out how much you trust him and make your decision.
One thing I think I can promise you... if you DO breakup, it won't be the end of the world (it does feel that way, but it really isn't...lol). You will find someone else. Maybe someone even better.
Just don't let paranoia ruin this before something bad actually happens. You can't control what other people do. Only yourself. So just handle things as they happen.
Good luck and take care.
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thnx! i was just feelin so low...ur comments r rlly useful - thnx agen 4 giving me confidence
uncreativename
EH, go with your instincts
Well, if he cheats on you, you have two choices... forgive him and try to work it out... or dump him and move on. All you can do is figure out how much you trust him and make your decision.
One thing I think I can promise you... if you DO breakup, it won't be the end of the world (it does feel that way, but it really isn't...lol). You will find someone else. Maybe someone even better.
Just don't let paranoia ruin this before something bad actually happens. You can't control what other people do. Only yourself. So just handle things as they happen.
Good luck and take care.